What is the line between being undersfanding and pushed ovef?

[Xenon21]

Okay, so girl is going through some depression right now. She's deleted all social media besides Whatsapp.

I'm scheduled to meet her next week but we just don't speak on Whatsapp. If I call her up, she's fine. She'll talk for an hour and not want to hang up. The part which is confusing for me is that we just don't text. If I send her a message saying good morning, she'll just ignore me. The part for me that I'm worried about is that she is overstating her mental struggles and I'm being pushed over as a result of it.

I'm quite sure she'll be speaking to other people on text. So, I ask the question what is the line between being understanding (her current mental struggles) and being pushed over (ignoring me on Whatsapp and speaking to others)?

[Guy13]

Is she taking advantage of situation? Request her medical file. After 6 months officially together, it is reasonable. I do physicals before then…. STD. Ask for Records