Why is her behaviour like this, she’s the shy quiet type?

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There’s a girl, I know ex-coworker/Friend she’s been hot and cold. For 2 years.

I feel she wants me to make a big confession but I will not before moving forward. I wanna take things slow. Bsb steps she asked me to join on a big trip, in my head I’m like we haven’t even gone out or hung out one on one as friends.

Recently she’s been trying sniff out how much I like her being hot and cold everyday. I’ve been deflecting saying that I’m interested in you but I don’t have feelings for you.

Im not sure how long I can hold out on this. She feels uncomfortable to be friends as she thinks I might like her. She kept pushing the agenda for a few days that she doesn’t like me even said doesn’t wanna be friends and came back next day.

But then she always keeps reaching out via text.

I don't know I feel like I might throw in the towel, and tell her I have feelings and she doesn’t like me so have to bail. Just to get rid of her.

Why is her behaviour like this, she’s the shy quiet type?
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