Whenever I go to the gym white women always stare at me. I guess they aren’t used to seeing such a masculine man because I’m built like a body builder. I am 6ft tall and built lean.
When white women stare at me in the gym, what they be thinking about?
I'm not black but my observations of black men who ask these types of questions, focused on race, are that they need the validation of white women to feel better about themselves. If these women are in fact looking at you then they might be attracted to you, no white man will make them feel like as much of a prize than a black man. If you need to drag down women from your own race to uplift them, they will like you even more - it will make them feel even more special. I would pursue these women, spare the rest of womenkind - I'm sure they can take a hit for the team.
You both need validation but for different reasons. You have been programmed to believe this race of woman is better and she's angry and wants to rebel against her own. Take the validation where you can get it, we all need to feel accepted. It's not an easy world for black people, spare a thought for the women of your race. They are the ones taking the biggest hit from this world.
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