What can I do to overcome a really foul mouth and a really bad temper?

[Cassie88]

I only joined 'GirlsAskGuys' a couple of days ago, and already I've gotten myself into a really heated argument with someone. Admittedly the guy is completely wrong about what he says, and is just embarrassing himself with the nonsense he's spewing, but still. Any ideas, suggestions? :)

[Reece12345]

Sometimes it's good to continue a conversation. This going by the assumption that whomever you're arguing with is opened-minded enough to change their mind. I think it's ok for things to get a little heated.

Then there are people out there who will never change their mind. They never question themselves and have no introspection. They will never change their mind no matter how good your argument is.

The real trick is to be able to tear yourself out of an argument with a mindless fool that can't change their mind. Continuing that kind of argument is like banging your head against a wall, again and again... just speaking for myself. Some people you will never convince.

[Reece12345]

Thanks for the MHO Cassie

[Nahid1707]

Welcome to GirlsAskGuys Cassie
Hope everything is good
You’ll find some users to be dumb and idiotic trolls on here

[Cassie88]

Um... yes. I've noticed. :D

[Nahid1707]

That is good 😊

[KostasKouvalis]

Me too. Honestly, there's no point in trying. I've tried before and I realized "fuck it, I'm not gonna be someone's bitch and let people walk all over me." I decided I'm not gonna change for anyone, and if they don't like me the way I am, that's THEIR problem. I don't think having a foul mouth and bad temper is necessarily a bad thing, and I find it a lot easier to vent online, because you don't have to worry about getting your ass kicked. it's good to release that pent up anger somewhere, and frankly I've grown tired of dealing with stupid people and sometimes anger is the only way to get through to them. Honestly, I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing, and it can be kind of sexy actually, as long as it's not sociopathic or directed towards me. Where I draw the line is framing people to get others on your side, but if you're just venting at them, I see no problem with that. Some people are entitled as fuck and think everyone should just kiss their ass and be their little bitch. Fuck that!

[nawtee_me]

Welcome Cassie88... It is a choice really, but it does help to remember you can not change anyone except yourself. With that in mind, it does make it easier when those people come a knocking that really want to push your buttons. Remember that you can not change them which means if they won't listen to you, you can not make the any smarter... lol The good news is if you don't listen to them they can not make you any dumber either... So no need to argue with them...

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you grow the fuck up and take accountability for your actions.

[Reece12345]

Ummm, chill? Where's all the hate coming from?

[Cassie88]

I have grown up. I live an independent life, have no debts, don't live with my parents (they're dead anyway, so that would be impossible), am filthy rich, and can do as I please because I don't have brats to feed.
How about you? Grown up yet? Your profile says you're 43. Well, isn't that odd. I'm younger than you are but FAR more mature.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you have such an enchanted life why are you so miserable? Riddle me that?

[Cassie88]

I'm not miserable at all. I just have a bad temper, and sometimes swear. Do you think being happy and having a bad temper are mutually exclusive?

[Reece12345]

The world can be a pretty shitty place. Shit happens and we have a right to be in a shitty mood. Too much news. It's understandable to be in a low mood / pissed of about the state of everything.
Nothing wrong in letting yourself feel anger and expressing it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Having a bad temper is like being a 5 year old.

[Reece12345]

Having a bad temper if you're having a shitty day is understandable.

[exitseven]

You have to exercise some self control. You probable use profanity in your every day conversation. You should start with that.

[OnTheLevel]

It's the internet, don't let anything anyone says here get under your skin.

[Fuentes]

You need soap In your mouth 🧼

https://youtu.be/4KjxFDGFKhk

[Anonymous]

Look into anger management courses, and think about seeing a therapist for advice.

[Jerre]

Why not block the guy

[Cassie88]

I suppose I could, but the people I've blocked so far (2 of them) blocked me first. I prefer not to block for the simple reason that if we all did that to the people we didn't agree with, or get along with, then no one would be talking to anyone here.

[Jerre]

Very true

[Anonymous]

Seems like you still haven't learned your lesson

[Cassie88]

What lesson would that be? To what are you specifically referring?

[Anonymous]

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