I know its something women want men to do for them, but I have realised that some women may also get worried when they do not receive confirmation from their male counterparts that they are home safely after a night out. Is this behaviour common?
Is it normal for women to make sure their dates get home safely?
You can try to call and check on the person, but if you get sent to voicemail, wouldn't that leave you wondering? Did they go out again after our date? Is he talking to another girl? Did he put his phone on Do Not Disturb? Did he get in an accident?
I consider it respectful for both of us to text that we made it home safe. When we are about to go our own way, I'll say..."text me when you get home" and he'll say "You too" or something like that.
It doesn't take a lot of effort, I even have a template for it, I load as a draft when I get home I hit send.
When I was dating it was expected that the guy would take the girl home, and wait to make sure she got inside the house safely before leaving. Sending a girl home on her own is kinda tacky to me. But maybe I'm just old-fashioned.
Anytime I have checked I have received a thank you. Anytime a girl checks on me and I am still on the road then I knew I left her doorstep too early. If I could only turnaround...
Speaking of driving. I've made it a habit to tell people to drive safe after they drop me off or when they leave after meeting me. Its just a nice gesture.
I don't need them to remember me being nice. Seeing the smile on their face is more than enough. It's why I am always nice to servers and retail/customer service workers.
Yeah I wish more people (especially Karens and entitled screw-ups) could learn to be like that. But then again, some people have brain cells but have no idea how to use them.
My wife used to want me to call her when I got home to make sure I got there okay. I used to leave her place Sunday night and drive all night and just go to work after that. She was always afraid I would fall asleep behind the wheel.
Kudos to them. I should learn from you! Although where I am from this is not a common occurrence among platonic friends as I live in one of the safest countries in the world.
Yeah. Thats precisely why I make it a point to tell servers and restaurant workers nice things. Its awesome seeing their faces light up after a long day.
Small things, like telling a cabby to drive safely, or telling the Mcdonalds worker who gave you your food "It must have been a long day, you have a good rest later!"
Small acts of appreciation go a long way in making someone's day. And when they are visibly excited by it, it melts your heart too.
I once waited in a long cue at a drive through just to give a man a Christmas card. He was always working hard and very nice. Type of person who stands out. When he came on the speaker I asked for an extra large pizza with fries on the side. The place didn’t sell pizza. Dead silence on the other end. Then several heads popped out the payment window to see me. He came back on “Can’t you see I’m trying to work here?” Laughing. Then asked what I wanted. I purposely didn’t order anything to give it more meaning. When I came to the window and gave him the card he about cried. He took it from me in a way that I bet he still has it. It was priceless. I like doing those little unexpected things.
Yeah I do it and I think it shows the two people care enough about each other the same and that's a good feeling for both so yeah I think it's perfectly normal.
Most people just say good night there on the spot and when a woman’s walking to her door, she turns around and gives you a glance and the man wait until she gets inside for the night
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