It’s about the children once you have them. There’s nothing wrong with trying to take in your happiness in the process of having children, or after they get to a certain age. A child can be very unhappy if a mother is unhappy as well.
For my example of my childhood, my mother was always chasing my father and I was always trying to chase after both of them and when she needed help with bills, I decided to get a job and start working at 16 to help because I didn’t want her to be unhappy I also thought it was easier if I was hurt that they both could focus on me. I tried to make sure that I was the golden child so they didn’t have to worry about me.
My children are my life and my true happiness. Their needs will always come before mine. Their proper development and their happiness is what keeps me going and motivated. Im the happiest when I do what is best for my children. My children are my greatest blessing. I am thankful for them and they will always be a priority for me.
Women get bored with their baby-daddy's and bounce, so we know women do not care about their kids happiness. Women only care about their own "happiness". If women did give a fuck about their kids they would make it work with their baby daddy's... but they don't, do they don't.
Any woman who places her own happiness over the wellbeing of her children should not be a mother.. Same goes for fathers by the way.
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I wouldn't know, my father was pretty much cold and distant from his children, like his grandfather was. I am drifting in the same direction, I care about my children but I don't see much to connect with them.
You can tell how important children are to women when they keep changing their fathers over and over as they go through one man after another.
Both are important. If a mom is unhappy the kids are gonna sense that and also become unhappy too so best that everyone is happy
What do we call people who get happy from making their children idiotic? I think the both should be one and the same.
Once you have a child the first 7 to 8 years has to be heavily towards the child's development.
After that, the child should be established if well raised then she can focus on herself more.
Both are important. Unhappy parents make unhappy children.
Women shouldn’t even have children if they’re going to be so selfish as to insist they are more important
You should absolutely take care of your child but valuing them above yourself? Is your child ever going to value you above themselves? Seems like a one-sided deal to me.
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