Is this very common?
Within the girl cliques, there is a power struggle and everyone has a place. Hanging out with guys that are uglier than you lowers their ranking. they will not do it unless it is family as that is understood by the women. There will also compete over phone number SO if you get a number from anyone, including ugly guy, it counts. NO lesser looking guy friends !!
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for the most part yes.
there's a reason we don't see Kate Middleton hanging around homeless bums.
I am a spiritual person and I like to associate with people who can stimulate my mind or evoke my sense of compassion and philanthropy. It does not mean I think dumb people are worthless or worthy of punishment but they do not provide me with the mental nourishment I want in a friend.
Level no, wave abslotly, we got shared intrests, my friends got depth and think beyond the next two minutes
Levels are in ilusion of group that honestly is silly
Only think maybe diffrent is most my friends are healthy, I prefer long term friendships
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"level" is super subjective, like someone can dress totally different but be on the same "level" in terms of values or in terms of hobbies/personal interests.
I tend to find there are very few people who I hang out with that I don't connect with "on some level" because otherwise what do we have in common to talk about?I'm not sure what you mean by level. Status? Looks? Intelligence? Money? People basically hang out with people they have something in common with, but women don't necessarily limit our friends to any of these criteria.
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I can't speak for other girls but for me, there's no such thing as "being my level". As long as I like the person, they respect me and we get along, it's enough for us to be friends or to hang out.
I don’t really care who I hang out with as long they’re nice people. But I know a lot of girls who only hang out with other pretty girls so they can enjoy the perks.
In a way yes. I'm more likely to hang out with people who is on the same mental and emotional level as myself then someone who is mentally and emotionally above me or below me.
Generally yes, money attractiveness, status, and lifestyle matter to women even in friendships. Women care more about how others perceive them and their social image. I was and am kinda nerdy, most women even don't want to be friends with nerdy guys unless they want some help with anything. Maybe some girls are different but so far in my life, I haven't seen any.
Well I have a feeling that this is something that doesn't only happen with women.
I think it's something that people (men and women) do in general.
As long as they aren't catty gossiping bitches than I am usually open to hanging around others.
Really what makes you think that? In woman world all I see is a lot of drama and competition well for me at least from my experience.
Nope, I try to be kind and friendly to everyone I don't believe in levels
Yes, it’s vain but I choose friends based off looks.
Yes but they keep the guys they would never date in the background because those simps will always do things for them when other guys won't.
Absolutely. Women get very offended by people who they see as "below" their level wanting to hang out with them.
Yup. You won't see most women hanging out with a fat nerd that collects Pokemon cards. You have to be at a certain level even just to hang out
I think every person likes to be with people the same level to be in a comfy zone
Sure, some girls do that, but thankfully most don't.
Some definitely do, yes.
Not if you have a good sense of humor.
Sometimes yes sometimes no
To be honest no
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