Just witnessed a girl completely shut up a cocky guy at a club by making a suggestive comment about his "manhood". The other girls were laughing along too and I felt bad for him.
Fair game or undeserved? I know some men can be quite sensitive and there isn't really a good comeback.
You'll see the tactic used here a lot by females... They'll be pissed about something or have their lack of logic exposed and that's when they resort to that. They'll also attack your sexuality like it matters... phrases like, "You're a fag and can't even get pussy," even when they just got through claiming they're LGBT supporting... which is kind of funny that they'll use it like s slur even though they claim they're so lefty and supporting of that stuff... hypocrites. For me, it's just really stupid because I'm basically a male fitness model and have a huge dick... and I've banged more than my fair share of vaginas.
The only reason I'm not voting is I don't think it's effective and for the other vote, it is an attempt to be mean, but it just exposes how mentally disabled they are. They don't even realize how stupid they look in that moment. ... like, it's a 'shit test'... the dude in your story could've easily turned her remark back around against her with a funny quip.
It's just a stupid 'shit test.' As a dude you should learn how to fuck up a woman's 'shit test' before you even consider stuff like PUA tactics in a bar... but that's just my humble opinion.
There's only a few ways to go from there.
Anger and retaliation, with or without humor: "Yeah, a tour bus is tiny when parked near the Grand Canyon."
"Notice most guys (who aren't suicidal) don't say "She has pancake tit energy." "She has huge Vajayjay energy." "She has mad... ::looks at feet, like using her for ideas:: cankle energy."" Notice if a dude said that, he'd be an ass. You say it, and it's the same thing, even if you usually get away with it. You're an ass." (and walk off). Probably sounds like a dumb comeback - (though usually true). It rarely reaches anyone, especially if they go "there" off the bat. "Lecturing" or trying to defend something like that makes you look like you can be attacked and take it personal; so they gotcha where they want ya. I wouldn't suggest it. Tends to make you look insecure.
Naw... I wouldn't suggest the retaliation, unless it was legit funny, and you could pull it off naturally.
Mostly, on any insult, I think I'd make jokes... but with the tiny dick remarks, at this point, I'd probably stop her and go "Really? Tiny dick jokes?" (Like... what are you, in high school?") Laugh it off and walk away.
Now, I would maybe argue that in this world, that an obnoxious guy - someone who was truly obnoxious and full of themselves without respect for anyone... too much bravado... maybe that would be where I'd be more understanding about a. tiny dick joke directed at him. But still, when I'm encountering a truly obnoxious girl, I don't say "Oh, look at that girl with the cavernous Whoo-haa." (unless she's a self appointed "proud slut") I don't go there. There are better and classier insults.
Nah easiest way to do that is to find out what he’s interested in and tell him he’s bad at it or ask him why he’s not making more money after taking all those courses he paid for.
Just saying “small dick” has lost its effect on most guys these days. (I would imagine) All men are super confident and know how to earn money and ~hustle~ these days.
Plus too many women on GaG have told them that size doesn’t matter. And it mostly doesn’t, I concede. Skill and attentiveness is more important. Saying a man doesn’t know how to please a woman is probably more successful.
m There are more effective ways. You gotta hit him where his insecurities are. Like if you say a guy has a small dick when he clearly doesn’t it isn’t going to have the same effect as if you said it to a guy with a small or average one. The trick is finding out what he is actually insecure about.
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Does anyone take comments like that seriously? They never bothered me.
Small is a relative term to compare one object to another. If a guy is moderate to large for a human and a girl says he has a small dick, then that's just a confession by the girl that she sleeps with other sorts of animals. So then the question becomes, what sort of animals have you been sleeping with? I don't see how a girl admitting that she fucks barn yard animals would affect a man's ego. It might weird him out a little bit that he was flirting with a woman that's into bestiality. It's fucking gross and all, but it's not going to affect his ego.
That can shut down insecure men.
A truly confident man will not be phased.
A more brutal thing to do would be to point out every flaw that would him question his self-worth, to be dismissive of his redeeming qualities, and to highlight anything he feels ashamed or embarrassed by.
Again, this will be difficult to do with a truly confident man, but this can destroy a less confident man.
But you need to know a man well to put a spotlight on all their insecurities.
If you’re talking about easiest as in easiest to do, without knowing them, then yes, joking about their small penis size would be an easy thing to say which would work on most men.
There have been enough times where if a woman really wanted to try to hurt me, they could spread bad rumors about me.
One time someone tried to say I had a small dick after she blew up my spot about the fact I had been sleeping with a bunch of coworkers. I kinda just shrugged and told her I've only ever had repeat customers.
LOL which made even more of the girls start flirting with me.
It does hurt, because it's the same as saying someone's ugly. It's a flaw with their body that they can't change, and women shouldn't go there.
They may not care about dick size, but we do and we always will.
Women get hurt when you comment on unchangeable features in ther body too. It's always a low blow
At some point a few years ago when I was working public safety for an area hospital: There was a patient who was causing all kinds of problems for staff and security and at some point decided that he was going to fight security while naked. So one the nurses comes by looks down and says "Honey that's not even enough for a call back" At which point he got dressed laid down and didn't so much as look at anyone until discharged. Deserved? Yes. Effective? Absolutely.
How would she know unless she had sex with him?
It is usually something a low quality person would say with no knowledge of the actual size just to insult someone because they can't handle a conversation or back up any opinions with logical thought.
I'm larger than average and do not have an ego to destroy because I see no point in ego.
No matter how skilled or knowledgable I am at something, or how ignorant or how much I struggle with something else, my mind is on the task and doing it/figuring it out.
My mind is not on my perceived value to others, as to me that is a waste of time to think about, since lasting relationships are compatability based, not asset/utility based.
Depends on the guy, if someone gets offended by a small dick insult, he's most likely insecure already or has a fragile ego. an individual who's confident in himself wouldn't get offended by that. They wouldn't need to be cocky to impress someone either.
Three biggest ways to upset a guy
1. say guys of another race are more attractive than guys of his race
2. say women are smarter then men
3. Call his penis small
Three biggest ways to insult a woman
1. Say her friends are prettier than her
2. mock her PMS
3. Call her fat
I don't know. Theoretically, i'm about a half inch above the supposed 'average' size penis, but I still feel small sometimes.
I've never had a room full of women gang up and do this exact same insult, but I did have a room full of women falsely accuse me of a crime aqnd had to prove my innocence, contrary to my basic human rights.
Women are savages when it comes to insults. It's their power since they don't have the physical strength in most cases that men do. It's a low blow, but no woman's words can hurt you if you're on top of your shit.
There is a comeback.
If she's not well endowed herself and has small boobs, just let her know that your penis is bigger than her midget chest.
If she's big boobed, then just say "how would you know?"
It may be the easiest way to destroy many men's self esteem but it certainly is the most effortless and unoriginal insult, that says more about the female than whoever she attempted to insult.
Needless to say I am unaffected being told that.
It's only as effective as a guy allows to be. Just like all insults.
If I saw the same thing happen and he shrugged it off I'd kinda assume the opposite is true.
I don't know. You tell us. You are the guy.
Commenting on someone’s dick that way is lazy and unimaginative. I feel like women do this cause because they feel powerless against men and psychological warfare is the only way they know how to even the playing field.
If a man gets upset by that, then he has some self help work to do. There are far greater ways to shit on a guy
If he has a small dick, sure, otherwise I can’t see why that would bother him at all.
Hey, if the guy is being an asshole, then what goes around comes around!
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