Bartender at my golf course where I am a member at always asks me to come see her when I am never at the club. Outside of that she only texts me or reply’s to me when she needs me to get her something. She has me on snap but blocks me from her stories. Last year she used to get close to me after her shift but I never pursued anything. I am 27 and have never dated but have have very high self confidence and very outgoing and a little overweight. Not sure if she is just using me when she needs something or she likes seeing me? Also when I was severely obese she would ignore me, since I lost 100 pounds she now talks to me smiles from ear to ear when I walk in.
Bartender at my golf club asked me to go see her when she works but does not reply to me outside of work what gives?
