Guys, When did you realize being nice to women was a bad idea?

[Anonymous]

I am not talking about being nice to women who care about you or women who are attracted to you. I am talking about when society tells you at a young age to treat women with respect. But as you grow up you start to realize respect needs to be earned by women.

My dad told me never to be nice to a woman unless I knew she was attracted to me. The teachers at school told me tried to drill that feminist bs in my head; I did not care because I was getting all the girls at school and did not see any reason to change.

My dad told me women would think you are trying to get too friendly with them and spread rumors about you. So lucky for me, I was never a nice guy that kissed women's asses.

I am happy I had a good dad, and I am still living the good life.

[Nivinxus]

Common misconception. Being nice is baseline, it is putting them on a pedestal that's a bad idea (aka simping). To be more accurate, we should just treat them like a normal stranger, not someone of great importance.

Of course it is okay to simp for the woman, but that is after the relationship has developed more intimately.

[Anonymous]

It depends what you mean by "nice" I'm generally nice to everyone. But yes I'm well aware of how women misread it sometimes. Honestly, I think it took me a the way to fully understand thoroughly how women think different from men.

[Agape93]

Yeah, that's why you post anon on a back ass Q&A website.

Nice try troll, but you're not good at this.

[Asker]

You win MHO.

[Asker]

I see you reported my comment. Awee, I was just trying to be nice. I didn't know you would take it that way. It's just some mediocrity Q&A website. lol you're a joke.

[Anonymous]

Congratulations. You figured out what most guys will never figure out.

[DarkLegacy]

When i found out the women from my generation were going to try and behave in the appalling manner they did. Plus all this feminism stuff. They can't have it both ways.

When i found out they were going to treat me the way they think they can then i decided it was a bad idea.

When they decided to try and take advantage of me. then i decided it was a bad idea.

I had chivalry to women shoved down my throat from a young age but i never upheld it. I never did take with giving special treatment towards women.

[FeminineHSP]

Personally, I don't care. Being kind, gentle and helpful is in my nature. Empathy is my way of being in tune with my humanity. If I'm gossiped about or taken advantage for being nice, I would just brush it off as nothing. Humans never learn. I have my life to focus. Anyone can talk but only I can live my life.

[Pyrofox]

I realized this once women slowly started to snear when I held the door open for them. Now I reserve that kindness for family, close friends, and couples who at least can grasp what kindness is.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Be respectful and appropriate in your behaviour, if not nice. Being too friendly pushes people away. Just have your priorities straight and the people who come to you.

That is what I believe.

[Jdjfjcjj]

When I saw that by and large, most women don't bring much other consistent sex, and the possibility that if she doesn't fuck up she'll have my children. At which point I accept and expect for her to diverts majority of her time raising them kids.

[Guy13]

At 13 I knew for sure being less accessible and prevalent in some activity in some way was the way to attract women. And only ingratiate the ones you have romantic interest in.

[WindAtMyBack]

I still haven't realized it because it's not true.

[Asker]

Everyone in the world must be your friend.

[misogynistic_pig]

I have been a misogynist for as long as I can remember, more or less since I was six years old.

[ThomasDavid1989]

You don't have to be "nice" nor "mean". In my opinion, you just treat people how you would want to be treated. If that means treat them shit because that's how you'd want to be treated, then be my guest

[Anonymous]

Everyone does not share in your definition of "the good life." Do what makes you happy but don't criticize other guys if they follow a different flight plan.

[SnowedIn]

It's not a bad idea. We should be nice and respect people all the time.

[turnpost]

Yes we should be nice to Hitler. Said no one sane.

[AviatorTom]

Never. I always try to be nice to people, man or woman.

[LiamJHayden]

It's not. Unless you mean doing backflips and spending money on women you barely know. That would be idiotic.

[Texaskid1]

Sometime in my 30's I realized this. I don't even make small talk with them.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I treat everyone with respect until they personally give me a reason not to.

[Twalli]

I'm nice to everyone. No woman has thought there was anything suspicious in my actions.

[bamesjond0069]

Pretty young like middle school and early high school.

[InvisibleHovercraft]

Nice guys always finish last women want contrary.

[OddBeMe]

Uhg, year one of my marriage.

[Anonymous]

Hate breeds hate. Good luck with that.