If woman are "afraid" of you on sight, does that mean you're unattractive?

[Anonymous]

There used to be a time when the majority of woman were literally "afraid" of me on sight or were on "edge" when around me

I never flirted with them or tried too but my presence alone made them act this way

I was 19 at the time & I was pretty much a "lanky baby face" type

Somewhat tall & lean but with the face of a young kid

I didn't look rugged or "big"

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine the exact reason why women may have been afraid or on edge around you without more information about the situation and context. It's possible that there were other factors at play that had nothing to do with your physical appearance or behavior, such as a previous negative experience with someone who looked like you, or social conditioning that led them to be cautious around men in general.

In general, it's important to remember that attractiveness is subjective and can be influenced by a wide range of factors beyond physical appearance. Confidence, personality, sense of humor, and other traits can all play a role in how attractive someone is perceived to be.

If you're concerned about how others perceive you or how you come across, it may be helpful to seek the feedback of trusted friends or family members, or to work with a therapist or counselor to explore any underlying issues or challenges. Remember that everyone has unique strengths and qualities that make them attractive and valuable, and that it's important to prioritize self-acceptance and self-love in any journey of self-improvement.

[Guy13]

You sound good-looking to me and do not know how to interpret women. Models fit your description. Dress better and see what happens... fashion it up a little bit. www.apetogentleman.com

[LazerBean]

If multiple women are afraid of you, it means you give off the vibe of some sort of creepy school shooter.

[Asker]

No

There was a guy who was 5'2 & he dressed like he was digging out of garbage dumpsters & most woman didn't mind him

With me they either tried to fuck with me or try to distance themselves from me OR smirk, laugh, when seeing me

[LazerBean]

Okay.

[Asker]

Just out of curiosity

When some woman smirk or LOL when they see a guy? What sort of connotation would you assume their dishing out? Bad? Good?

[LazerBean]

It's bad.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes. Some guys just give off extremely sleazy vibes.

[Asker]

Sleezy? As in trying to flirt with them?

[FilmGuy93]

No, sleazy as in untrustworthy or a trouble maker. Regardless of whether you try to hit on them, something about the way you present yourself gives women the impression that you are someone they don't want to know.

[Asker]

Is it the "Halo Effect" put into action?

I'm assuming because the females wouldn't mind the "untrustworthy" & "trouble maker" vibes if the guy was overly attractive (9/10 types)

[FilmGuy93]

No. A creepy and sleazy person is going to be ceepy and sleazy, regardless of how physically appealing they are.

[Asker]

But if over time these particular females see that IDGAF about anything & everything that isn't my business?

Would they become at ease?

[FilmGuy93]

Probably not. I'm sure that a lot of what's causing women to respond this way to you is that they think you're a try hard.

[Asker]

I don't know what it is about the woman I've had beef with over the years but a lot of them reacted very negatively towards me

(scared, aloof, nervous, standoffish, bitchy)

I still don't talk to anybody by the way & I have noticed that most females just ignore me ONLY after I talk mad shit about how I "loath* myself , my life, everybody

Yada yada

[FilmGuy93]

Well, now I know why those women get bad vibes from you. You hate the world and yourself, so you just give off a vague hostility.

The women are picking up on that and want nothing to do with you

[Asker]

No

I started running my mouth AFTER I was perceived as "sleezy" to get back at them "verbally"

[FilmGuy93]

No. Your hostility comes through in your body language long before you ever open your mouth

[magiusX26]

not really, more likely they are buying into modern woke feminism

[Fuentes]

Get s beard