I'm that woman that no matter how nice I try to be, other women just don't like me, ever. I crave female friendship and I can never connect with other women. I wish I knew what was wrong with me but I have a hard time picturing how I'm being perceived. While it is true that I get along with men better, I'm not the attractive woman who will fuck every guy in the friend group and create drama that people imagine when you tell them woman who can't make female friends. I'm honestly unattractive even though I'm clean and dress normally. I think I get along with some men only because I like video games and I don't look like a potential date so they kinda see me like another guy if they aren't bothered by my apparence. They will ignore me most of the time, but women will actively resent me/be casually mean. I genuinely wonder if it isn't just that women hate other women who look either way better than them or way worse, as there definitely is some sort of social hierarchy of looks going on between women. As a woman or even guy who's ever come across that woman who just doesn't have female friends not out of choice, what did you perceive that was wrong/off with her?
What is wrong the woman who can't make women friends?
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It is odd to not have friends of your gender. In my experience when this is the case, its due to a personality disorder that you may or may not know about. Bipolar disorder is an example that tends to cause people to do incredibly irrational things, and most often damaged the bonds they have with others. I'd seek therapy, and address this concern more deeply there.
I don't feel like I resonate with bipolar based on your description of it. I know that there is probably something wrong with me but I can't figure out what. I can make male friends sometimes and while I'm not the most socially skilled person out there I'm definitely not that bad... I genuinely don't think I'm mentally disordered but maybe I should still see a professional
You absolutely should, because irregardless of what the culprit is, you will benefit from gaining a better understanding of yourself. Self reflection with the assistance of an objective professional view, will lead to you becoming comfortable in your own skin. Ultimately, that is one of the most attractive qualities in people irregardless of gender, so it will inevitably help you gain friends.
maybe you are not attractive to be a friend, you dress badly and dont seem to be an interesting person, best way to bond may be to find common interest with a person, if you have some kind of hobby that another woman likes it may be way to bond
Childhood trauma?