You can't "tell the bitch off" I always refer back to this video. How does a guy get out of this situation without being the bad guy/going to jail? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaPP0XGoV-g
In the US it's quite likely if a man and a woman have a conflict the guy is to blame, regardless of the circumstances that led to the conflict. This is the case for domestic violence as well as social conflict. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNrWuZV3jjw violence against men is much more accepted then violence against women. This is born out by both statistical analysis as well as social experiments.
Not necessarily, abuse is defined by the victim. If something doesn't bother someone then it's no longer abuse. That doesn't lessen the impact on those who feel abused by those acts. I've certainly been the victim of these kinds of things. And have had heavy social pressure not to react. But I am also hyper aware of these things so it maybe that many guys just don't even notice.
I could also blame the efforts to minimalize and trivialize or even outright deny that men can be victims of abuse. People who have gotten in front of congress and lied about the subject, lobbied for laws and standards. Created models based on political motivations and pushed those standards to be the training standard for law enforcement. Intentionally blocked laws that define men as victims. And then try and blame it on men.
I am not saying that some guys don't mind. For that matter there are women who do not mind being fondled or groped. That doesn't excuse systematic and intentional legal fights to prevent these issues from becoming legally enforceable. One or two individuals does not effect legality. Lobbying and congressional malfeasance does.
I do, I write articles, discuss the topic on places like here. Support organizations and politicians who wish to change these issues, share studies and participate when appropriate. Do my best to correct fallacies and address those who may be misinformed, write congresspeople and ultimately be a good example for those who need one.
Were just risk-takers. Woman are more cautious, though. But were capable of making moral decisions. The problem is a double standard. I'm not complaining. It is what it is. We're equals. But we are different creatures.
And you know i can also say women are creeps and they're disgusting with different intentions just like that. Now i'm automatically correct according to your logic
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it is because if you are a man, you are condemned since the day you were born. We live in a hypocrite world.
It’s still the old double standard
Thats fine. Were the same species, equal, but different.
I'd never. Harassment is harassment.
That's the point. It's not always harassment to men as it is for women.
Next time tell the bitch off.
I don't care, though. That's the part that's interesting.
Well then, you only have yourself to blame
I won't be blaming if I wasn't complaining... 😂
Okay.
You can't "tell the bitch off" I always refer back to this video. How does a guy get out of this situation without being the bad guy/going to jail? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaPP0XGoV-g
I don't think you will go to jail to protect yourself.
In the US it's quite likely if a man and a woman have a conflict the guy is to blame, regardless of the circumstances that led to the conflict. This is the case for domestic violence as well as social conflict. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNrWuZV3jjw violence against men is much more accepted then violence against women. This is born out by both statistical analysis as well as social experiments.
Did you not hear what Irish Wolf here said?
"I don't care, though." If even a small percentage of harassed men give misleading statements like that, you'd only have them to blame.
Not necessarily, abuse is defined by the victim. If something doesn't bother someone then it's no longer abuse. That doesn't lessen the impact on those who feel abused by those acts. I've certainly been the victim of these kinds of things. And have had heavy social pressure not to react. But I am also hyper aware of these things so it maybe that many guys just don't even notice.
If guys like him say they don't care, guys like you are forced not to react.
So blame other men.
I could also blame the efforts to minimalize and trivialize or even outright deny that men can be victims of abuse. People who have gotten in front of congress and lied about the subject, lobbied for laws and standards. Created models based on political motivations and pushed those standards to be the training standard for law enforcement. Intentionally blocked laws that define men as victims. And then try and blame it on men.
Honey, you're ignoring the live example.
Why Would A Man Lament About Men Getting Harassed Oftener & When Asked To Report, Shrug It Off Saying He Doesn't Really Care? ↗
Here you go. Some men even have shrugged it off as "turn on" or "invitation".
I am not saying that some guys don't mind. For that matter there are women who do not mind being fondled or groped. That doesn't excuse systematic and intentional legal fights to prevent these issues from becoming legally enforceable. One or two individuals does not effect legality. Lobbying and congressional malfeasance does.
If you're a guy who minds, raise your voice.
I know you can't change the system. But society is us, so change will start with one.
I do, I write articles, discuss the topic on places like here. Support organizations and politicians who wish to change these issues, share studies and participate when appropriate. Do my best to correct fallacies and address those who may be misinformed, write congresspeople and ultimately be a good example for those who need one.
That's good. Proud of you.
men have different intentions
And women don't have these same intentions? Yeah ok
@Greenbins men are creepier
Not all men. You are stereotyping
@Greenbins all men are disguting
You sound like you have some issues you need to deal with.
If you're in the club or pub, rte inensions are all the same, tbh
Thats kinda what I was thinking.
@Greenbins men don't think
Were just risk-takers. Woman are more cautious, though. But were capable of making moral decisions. The problem is a double standard. I'm not complaining. It is what it is. We're equals. But we are different creatures.
Sure we do.
And you know i can also say women are creeps and they're disgusting with different intentions just like that. Now i'm automatically correct according to your logic
@TheIrishWolf us men are wolf's
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