Cuz men think differently then girls’ do for the most part , When a girl finds us attractive we are more accepting of her wanting us , compared to how a girl is acceptive to a man wanting her , because girls’ tend to get way more attention then most guys do , a girl can pretty much pick what she is into and what she likes cuz she has a lot more options , us guys on the other hand don’t have much options , for us to get a girl to be interested In us , we have to impress her , And make ourselves stand out more to try to get her attention , where a girl can just walk by and get a lot of attention from guys that want to stick their Dick in her without really realizing it , Yes it is a double standard but that’s how it goes , if girls thought like guys did? , this whole world would be an orgy lol What cracks me up about girls’ is they will complain that she was being cat called by some guy and it creeped her out , but if the guy was attractive , she would be all about it. Little do most girls’ realize is most of them are selfish and only do what is best for them , she doesn’t see things like us guys do, but in her mind it’s ok for her to do things but not ok for a man to do things. Most girls were raised thinking they are supposed to be treated like a Princess , and that all she needs to do is look beautiful and find her a guy that will support her and take care of her so she doesn’t mess up her nails. She was raised to believe her shit don’t stink and if things don’t go her way the grass is greener on the other side , She will find a guy that has Sucker written all over his head and use him like no tomorrow , and make joke with all her friends on how she has him wrapped around her little finger , Girls like that need to be on the streets where they belong , Whores
This is a double standard, but it's one that makes sense and is based on biology and survival.
While I believe in equality to the extent possible, men and women are not the same, and we can never be completely equal. Anyone who says otherwise is lying to you - and when we push too far to try to force equality, almost no one is happy. That's reality.
Women have more to lose and more to fear from random men coming up to them and groping or touching them, so naturally they see it as a bigger issue. Would you want random men groping your own mother or sister without consent? I doubt it.
If you want to be able to grope a woman, you have to earn that right by making her WANT your hands on her. And most of the time, for most men, you can't, but too bad. You need to keep moving along until you find someone who wants that from you - and, yes, that probably means that you need to improve other aspects of yourself too. That's life.
As a man, you have to work and EARN these privileges - if you weren't fortunate enough to be born amazingly handsome, you're going to have to put in the effort, and there are few shortcuts. That's the reality for most men, and you have to man up and get it done - or don't, and don't complain that you don't get any privileges.
cos stereotypically guys are seen as always wanting sex and being obsessed with that to the point that any sexual advance you get from a girl (as long as she's a least oh so slightly cute) you'd definitely like it and say yes. so for many people its impossible for a guy to say no to sex and stuff. also girls are a lot weaker then guys, not perceived to be very sexual stereotypically, so for those reasons girls aren't seen as capable of forcing a guy to have sex, harassing or molesting him or whatever, so if a girl touches up a guy its viewed as okay or even a good thing
for girls though women are stereotypically seen as a lot less horny then dudes (and i mean its kinda true) so they dont want sex as much as dudes and also its ingrained in society to protect womens like purity and stuff in a sense. also people are tought that touching a girl is horrible since like a very young age, and girls are tought its bad from also a young age (and i mean it is) and they need to protect themselves and be careful of people like that. also 99% of girls react very badly if you do that but guys dont really care as much or even like it so there's also that
You have to understand that women have a long history of facing very real danger with strange men touching them. Men are much less historically physically threatened by women, so they aren’t conditioned to be as protective
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It’s all in the touch because of a man touches it is assumed more would come later and if he felt impulsive about it, it would be somewhat difficult for the female to overpower and neutralize his attempts.
If a lady touches, it’s not always guaranteed to advance regardless of her intents, and if she were to try, she could be neutralized so the male being touched can avoid that confrontation.
In today’s society it’s better to keep things equal and let it boil down to a person's personal rights and self-respect. If they feel disrespected or threatened then they confront or ask for intervention from the rightful party/parties.
Because men have physical power over women and that's the way nature works.
It's ok for women to touch men, because numer one, most men like it, and number 3 or 4 or whatever number we're on, they can't physically over power us and force us to have sex.
Anyone who doesn't understand that basic concept is a damn fool
Uh, who says it is okay to touch men without consent. I get that you say that it happens, but I doubt anyone here is going to say it is okay to do but not for guys to touch girls. That is also not okay.
It is simple and called consent. Does not matter the gender. Everyone needs it to have physical contact with someone, especially as you describe which in my opinion is a sexual way (grabbing someone's butt).
That is sexual assault. Again, does not matter that it was a girl. She has no excuse. It is very creepy that a girl would do that. Equally creepy if a guy does it to a girl. I would like to know why you believe that people find this okay if it is a girl that does it.
I have never seen anyone say that is acceptable for a girl to molest someone. It is pure assault. Perhaps you live in some backwards country where girls are allowed to sexual assault whomever they want. I have no clue otherwise.
Everything men do is wrong, disgusting, and degenerate. Everything women do is pure, wholesome, and innocent. Even if it's the same action. The act isn't wrong in itself, it's men who are wrong.
How have you not come to understand this by now?
I don't know, good question.
Supposedly because of physical abuse but, having never touched a female abusively in my entire life, I noticed that from circa 2016 or so, they started getting angry at any level of physical contact that was once customary (or even considered polite).
The people here who are saying it's not ok are missing the point. The point is that both men and women do it (it's happened to me countless times) but women get really upset and offended by it while men don't.
So why do women get so upset about it? Because they are more easily offended and more likely to feel entitled to not being offended.
Sexual harassment is never ever okay, regardless of the gender that is being harassed.
If you have the feeling that you are a victim of such sexual abuse, then it is up to you to voice it and to make it clear to those perpetrators that it is not okay and if need be, to press charge against those women.
Sexual harassment is not the sole prerogative of one single gender but it is true that more women are sexually harassed than men.
However, I have the feeling that you actually like being sexually harassed otherwise, you would have said something to those women and not simply accepted as a fact. If you don't care, that means you approve and that is not okay at all because you give the signal that you agree with them harassing you.
If you don't like it, then voice it out loud to those girls and they will stop. Otherwise, enjoy it and that is exactly what I think that you want but then, don't make a big fuss about it being okay or not.
It is never okay.
It’s all about perception. You said it yourself, you don’t care if you’re touched. In fact, most men welcome physical contact with a woman. Women perceive it differently because we live in a world where we are groped, ogled, and sexually harassed more than any man can ever relate to. So as a result, women are much more sensitive about unwanted touching. Being objectified becomes tiresome and offensive. If men behaved better in general, this might not be the case.
Its an unfortunate double standard that women love to take advantage of. Same with domestic violence. Women will, knowing full well if the police are called, her man will go to jail, hit and abuse her man. Women know they face no consequences for it, and never will.
I would not be okay with a woman touching my ass in a public setting, that I did not know.
I think that is totally creepy and a turn off.
Those are the type of women that are well aware of that double standard and would likely cause you grief.
Depends on the touch. Some people overreact. Yes. But not most. Though touching can and does make many uncomfortable.
I don’t like being touched much by folks I don’t know. Even shaking hands. You see how many don’t wash their hands after taking a shit. Who knows where their hands have been.
I do my best not to touch people I don’t know or don’t know well too.
Because men's bodies aren't sexualized like women's bodies are. A man's butt is not considered a sexual object like a woman's ass. Women aren't attracted to men's butts. But men are attracted to women's butts. Thus, this is why its not sexual harassment when she does it.
men sexually harass women way more than women sexually harass men. Men have stronger sex drives. This also explains why men make up over 90% of rapists or sexual predators or child molesters worldwide.
I want to be touched. I don't mean in that way, though also yes in that way.
I don't like the way the world has become. It's mechanical and sterile. Social interaction has been turned into a computer program. If I'm not the exact perfect person with the perfect expected behavior and cause no problems, I will be rejected and alienated.
If it continues to get worse, I seriously don't know that I'll have the will to keep going. Life isn't fun. It's getting so sad.
Touching without someone’s consent is never ok. Especially, if it’s someone you don’t know. You can tell those women not to touch you if it makes you uncomfortable. You have every right to. But, I think for men they’re ok with it because they don’t get that much attention as women. I’m not saying that’s all cases, because there’s men who do set boundaries, but in your case you seem ok with it. I don’t know, I could be wrong 🤷♀️
I’m okay with this double standard tbh they can touch
I wouldn't want a women touching me in a bar who I don't even know. Same with me touching a woman who I don't even know. But I get it's a bar and women are going to go after attractive guys and be all over them wanting to get their attention by touching their hands, butt and arms.
I think it is another lie used to divide us
As social beings we desire touch male or female it is a show of great affection
intention is everything women can smell amorous ambition from a 1000 kilometers away the same is true for a genuine benevolent embrace
Because we like it and are not threatened by it or feel something has been taken from us.
LOL Funny question, because the answer is very, very simple: men like it, and even welcome it! If you don't care, or welcome it, it's not sexual harassment to you by definition.
m Dude. If you made it all the way to 25 without being able to understand consent you might want to get off the internet and go find a therapist.
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