I guy that I’ve been talking to hinted quite obviously that he wants to see me. I’m interested in him too. I told her about it and told her that I’m not yet sure what I reply to him (I wanted to him to ask me out).
He told me ” if we’re going to meet it should be a good place”
she suggesed me to just say to him” haha you’re not lying”
i told her that her suggestion would give him the impression that I’m not interested in him.
Is she jealous? Why would she want to sabotage me like that lol?
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Sounds like she's jealous that you're getting attention from a man.
She’s little older than me in her 30’s and has been on off with a guy. She just got back together with her ex.
One thing I've learned about relationships; a lot of people are in bland, unfulfilling relationships out of a sense of fear that they won't ever find anything better.
I think that really described her situation. Would that make her jealous of me though?
Not so much jealous of you, in particular, more just anyone who is excited about life in a way that she feels deficient in.
Maybe she’s skeptical that she ever gets married. When they got back together he told her “let’s take day by day”
Could be. She's the only one who could know what she's thinking. And honestly, she might not even have the self awareness to know, herself.
Everyone talks differently. Maybe it's her way. I'll say be yourself and say what you want to say.
If I said thay wouldn’t been dry and he would’ve thought I’m not interested?
It's not a dry response at all. It's a little flirting one where you show that you agree and want to meet at a good place so you both can have a good time and maybe more.
by the way he hinted at meeting me 4 times before he actually asked me out. Is he shy or he just wanted to make sure I won't reject him.
You are just over thinking. He's not shy
Why do you think he isn’t shy? We were chatting for 1 month before he asked me out.
He doesn't want sex he wants more. Aka a proper relationship.
But even in that case wouldn’t case ask me out more quickly?
You could do it too right? Go for it if you like him.
He already did ask me out but after 1 month of chatting
She is jealous and she has eyes on him as well. So stop listening to her advice and make a move on the guy before she does.
I don’t think she’s interested in him. She’s little older than me in her 30’s and has been on off with a guy
Thanks for the reply, that does seem odd.
But their relationship hasn’t been healthy and they just got together. I don't know if she’s really happy with him.
Doesn't sound like it.