There was a girl the used to stare at me a lot but never say anything.
I try to talk to her what went well but sometimes no, some days she was in a very bad mood for some reason, what is ok.
I try to ask her out and she shut it down in a bad way.
did not make much sense but, hey maybe she have some bad experience? So I just move on.
I kept a distance and just did my own thing. She kept staring at me and getting very nervous every time we where close or far.
I try the most I can to just ignore her and leave her alone.
But some times we by randomness pass trow each other and even I looking away she always get way to nervous.
it start to happen way to much so I look her up on instagram and send a message.
I just apologize if I did something ( don’t remember anything I could have done) and said that I would go early and leave early so we would never see each other again.
For four days it work. Zero contact.
but she start to go early too, I could see one time that she scan the whole place into she find where I am. But again don’t say a word.
I just went even more early and she did the same same. Every time I try to avoid her she change her time too in the next day.
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I have no idea.. maybe she does like you but is too nervous to even date you?
Date would be way to much, she don’t even say anything
How do you know she is in a bad mood with you?
How did she turn you down?
Not a bad mood with me in special, but overall with everything. She would lose a little her cool with other people for minor reasons, ( like another person literally trying to help her with something she was doing wrong). The bad mood don’t look that have anything to do with me. The bad way was more her reaction, she reacted like I just killed her dog or something like that, she did not did anything bad.
I think she likes you.
I was very shy in school but could talk and joke with my friends..
But when I thought someone didn't like me and tried to help me I thought it was like they wanted to bully me so I wouldn't let them.
Also any time the guy I liked would try to talk to me I would freeze up thinking about how to reply to him but by the time I was gonna reply he already walked away... I am pretty sure when we graduated he thought I hated him because I could easily talk to his friends but I couldn't talk to him. I think he thought I was ignoring him but I wasn't I was too nervous lol
Lol thanks. In your case, what you think would work? Like say what or do
Just maybe smile at her when you see her staring at you.. or if she is far away wave.. even if she ignores you. I bet it would make her really happy :)
You could try things slowly like say hi, see if she responds..
If you have interest in her just start slow make easy conversation and she might come around..
Thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊