Why do some girls not have a plan/idea on what they want to do/where they want to go on a date/trip?

[Jackj]

I know not all are like this but I have had it quite a few times that som girl wanted to meet with me and when I asked what she wanted to do/where she wanted to go she just said:"I m fine with everything" and asked the question right back at me. And I just think 🧐, and then just try to come up with something that comes to mind.

Is she just happy that I'm spending time with her that it doesn't matter what we do?

But on the other hand, why are some peoe like this?

[MrOracle]

That's because it's YOUR job to plan the dates. You can offer to let her choose the next one, or the next restaurant, and if she wants something else, she'll make the plans for the next date, but otherwise, she wants and expects YOU to make the plans, and most of the time she will be happy with whatever you pick. She expects you to ask her what her interests are and what kind of food she likes or hates, and to use that information when making plans.

You might think you are being nice by letting her choose, but to most women, that's just pressure that she doesn't want, and she would strongly prefer you to take care of it. There are a few exceptions, of course, but most women would agree with what I wrote. I used to make that same mistake when I started dating, but I quickly figured out that I was doing it wrong, and they were much happier when I made the plans. I've since reconfirmed that in many discussions with women.

[msc545]

She is going to make you do the work and wants to keep you guessing about what kind of things she really likes. This is a red flag - not a big one, but still very red; also a shit test.

[Anonymous]

Man this will be the case whether you're 16 or 100. Women think it's a guys job to entertain her. But don't think she's "just happy you're spending time with her". I PROMISE you, she's judging you the whole time.😆 Women from puberty to about 30 or 40 are told they're the greatest thing since sliced bread by and guy trying to f*** them. This results in them having an over developed sense of importance.