Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?

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My hair is on the curly-wavy side and a couple inches past my butt and I'm getting bored with it. First I liked growing it out and having long flowing hair but now I'm bored and wanna cut it shoulder length or get a pixie cut. I usually keep it in a bun or a french braid but he likes when it's down. I asked him if he's afraid I'm going to look different or if he has a problem with change. He's adamant about it not being any of those reasons and about me not cutting my hair. I'm used to people staring at my hair, that's not why I want to cut it. I'm just tired of it. Point is... I want to cut my hair and plan to. I'm nervous about cutting it and having him explode on me.

Would you date a girl with hair this long?

Do you even find hair this length attractive?

Why do you think he's so angry about me cutting it? I really need a guy's perspective. I feel frustrated and like he's not being fair.

I included a number of pics so you can get an idea of the length.

Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?


Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?


Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?


Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?


Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?


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Thanks! I don't feel like its too long most times. I was just bored with it. I did cut some. He freaked out. We're still not on the best of terms...
Guys, what's with some men and long hair? Why won't my husband let me cut my hair?
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