i’ve got a bone to pick and it’s nagging at me like a stuck splinter. A friend had a question for her boyfriend, she asks if he would ever swipe on me and obvsly he says no and she asks “why not? she’s pretty” and he says “she’s not my type and seems easy” and she laughs.
I’m not mad at how her boyfriend responds bcs we truly have no attraction towards eachother. But to my friend who brings up the question which is just like why? like what was the reason? and that she just laughs at his answer towards the question like it’s the most hilarious thing. The thing is, it feels worse knowing that this is coming from one of my very close friend whom i’ve known since childhood. The question and laugh feels like she knew what the answer was gonna be and was expecting it which just feels 100x more insulting.
I don't know if it’s just me that feels the question was already a weird one to ask twrds ur boyfriend about ur friend. Like do couples rlly discuss about this? and she just laughs like it’s a joke? Bcs I’ve never felt curious to ask any guy i’ve been with if they would ever swipe on a friend.
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I'm going to make a couple assumptions here. First, im assuming y'all were all together when this conversation took place. Second, I'll assume that you weren't being flirtatious and pissing off your friend.
If both assumptions are correct then I'll say the guy didn't need to add the last part, and the fact that he had to reassure his girlfriend by putting you down shows he weak.
Now to your friend, she would then be likely feeling insecure with you and her boyfriend being present together and feeling like you were looking better than her.
Take it up with her. Not us sis!
just don’t wanna make a fuss if i’m overthinking about it and it’s truly nothing
Nah if you feel a way about it ask your friend about it. But I mean if she does feel that way what are you going to do about it?
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