This is good right? I’m not overthinking?

[anon67860]

Ok so basically I’ve been talking to this boy and he's very closed up w/ his emotions most of the time but i think he really likes me. This is kind of my first time reciprocating any kind of feelings towards me so it’s all super confusing. Yesterday he asked me to call him around 2am (even though he needs to get up at 9) and we talked till I had to go at 7am bc i had to pretend i was asleep for my parent’s sake. So he barely got any sleep yesterday. Then today he called me again but i said i needed to do something for an hour and he waited up for me. Then we talked and while we were talking he kept drifting off a little but refused to let me hang up. then around 7 he fell asleep while i was telling him a story about how me and my friend drifted apart and i let him sleep bc the poor guy was obviously so exhausted. When he woke up he told me that he had noticed that he came in his sleep at some point and that hadn't happened to him in years. Was that bc of me? or was it just a coincidence? or was he just so tired his brain made it happen? i genuinely don’t know. i think it was me? i mean i was saying anything important i was just talking for the sake of talking. Also what would be the reason for him telling me? its not like i wouldve known. if it was bc of me its super flattering ig but was it? was that why he told me? he thought id be flattered? someone please help.

[_Maya_]

You could have played a role in that happening to him but no one will ever be able to know for sure. I doubt he even knows. He may have been fantasizing about you and then fell asleep but who knows what he was dreaming about when it happened. Unless he vividly remembers his dreams then you'll never know. Like I said though you could have played a major part in stimulating his mind and getting him to that point in his sleep. I think the more important thing here is how he is willing to talk to you throughout the night even though he has to be up. That says a lot more about his feelings for you than the other thing.

[anon67860]

he did say he doesn't remember what he dreamt about but he remembers falling asleep and still kind of hearing my voice. but ur right the fact he stayed up (or tried to) means a lot more. :)

[_Maya_]

Yeah he obviously likes you to stay up all night like that.

[Nifrayu]

All I can say for sure is that he feels comfortable opening up to you. I don't think he would have shared that with you otherwise. Even he wouldn't know if it was because of you unless he had a sexy dream about you. If that's the case he might have been scared to tell you that part.

It could be that he was hoping you would ask him if it was because of you. By asking that he could take that as a sign that it's safe to say outright without sounding like a pervert. Sort of a green light.

So if you really want to know, ask him. I promise it's safe to ask. He won't mind. And if he does you have a pretty solid defense because after all he initiated the topic and you just wanted to know what it means.

[anon67860]

omg thats a great idea im going to do that. thank you!!

[spartan55]

I doubt it was because of you... but why would that be flattering? You can't control what you dream about anyway. He could be lying too.

[anon67860]

i dont think he was lying bc the way he said it he was kinda hesitant and embarrassed to tell me and i bugged him until he told me what he was thinking about. also aren't ur dreams just a continuation (and somewhat exaggeration) of ur normal conscience mind or smthing?

[spartan55]

If you think this is flattering to you or means anything you are really detached from reality. Why would he share that with you anyway? Doesn't matter, I would find another moron.

[anon67860]

oh. ok. well aside from this i do really like him i was just wondering about this.

[spartan55]

Enjoy.

[shyangel335]

It’s very obvious that he is into you.. go for it girl

[Anonymous]

It is supposed to be flattering but I don't think it means anything.

He could have shit himself in his sleep, that wouldn't mean you were a monster.

[Iron_Man]

He likes you

[Cheerfull009]

Long story, need time to read