So me and her were best friends and she told me one night she had feelings for me and wanted to pursue something serious but also said she was scared if our friendship was ruined bc I was a big part of her life and meant a lot allegedly.
we tried for a little bit but after she told me she had feelings she completely changed and only pulled away like at first it felt like I was helping her with some issues she had with vehicles that she needed done soon but after the first time I did that she would start to cancel on me unless I did something and refused to add to the situationship bc she was scared or committing bc of her living situation but she would act like we were a couple when we were with each other.
Fast forward to the end of the month when I started to feel used after a comment she made, and I told her I didn’t appreciate it bc we pretty much stopped hanging out unless I did something and she got upset and told me she lost feelings bc I brought it up and called me a liar for saying it…needless to say we stopped being anything even friends bc of it and I’ll admit I’m still heartbroken bc she was my best friend and I did try to treat her as best as I could’ve even though she never treated me well or attempt to add to the situation she always told me she wanted and blame me for it while I would always ask her to put in a little if she actually meant what she said about having feelings.
fast forward a month she acts like she fell in love with a guy she met once and they’ve been dating for just over a month and they have only seen each other one time but she instantly started to put a lot of effort in like what I wished she would’ve done with us.
my thing is like did she never mean what she said to me bc she just tries with him and didn’t with me. Like was I just a target to just do stuff for her. I gave her space never pushed her for anything only thing was the few times I’d mentioned that we could just hangout and to put in effort.
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She said she was scared if your friendship was ruined in the beginning. Fast forward to the end she did NOTHING to preserve the friendship (at least if she did you didn't list it). So in my mind she told you in the end what you meant to her. This is good to KNOW this. Because you nor your friendship meant anything to her. This is good to KNOW. Because if you know this it'll be much easier to get over her as you just have to accept now that it was all fictional. This doesn't make you unworthy. It makes her unworthy of your love. And some woman much better deserves that gift dude.
Thanks man i actually appreciate what you just said…. I did typo the beginning bc I meant it as she was worried it would ruin it. And she didn’t do anything after to preserve it like i felt like I was constantly losing my best friend through it until it ended…. I know I’ve been doing good getting over her it’s just that crushed me and I thought I was pretty much over it.
Well know that everyone goes through this at least once in thier life. You will rise from this stronger and wiser than before.
Yeah I hope so
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