This did not happen to me. It happened to a good friend of mine, he was on a date after having been divorced 5 years (i paid for his lawyer, completely different story). Basically he was on a date with a lady, It was not an expensive one according to him, Just an out to eat and get to know one another type. She asked things like how much he makes, and if he owns a home and how many cars he has, Which he answered truthfully, he has nothing to hide. And then He asked her "Well what do you bring to the table?". Her response was to tell him that she only needed to bring her self, and that he was not a man if he expected more. At this point he shot me an SOS Text (a text that he sends asking someone to call with a fake emergency), I called, got him his excuse. He paid, but left her at the restaurant.
To me, if a woman chooses to deflect, chooses to insult if asked that very simple question, it means she is simply not worth his time, or effort, and is honestly a MASSIVE red flag, and an indicator of BPD and NPD.. He dodged a bullet and i was happy to help him out of his situation. "What do you bring to the table ", usually surfaces when a woman has a long shopping list of qualities she wants in a man, while at the same time bringing nothing of her own. Its like asking her to prove why she is better than 90% of women out there is beneath her.
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