Why are girls attracted to you when you're a little arrogant or mean?

[Anonymous]

I was having a really hard time and as a defense mechanism I was distancing myself from people as much as possible... that translated into me being nonchalant most of the time and acting like a douche... weird thing was... Girls really liked my douche phase lol ! .. the ones I know take me more seriously now and a lot of girls are like dying for my attention... always assuming I have other girls waiting lol... to me this is super weird , personally when someone is toxic it's a huge turn off for me and I wasn't pleased with myself during that phase but other people's reaction really surprised me... why do girls like it tho? is it because it makes you more masculine or something? Are girls just crazy? Lol...

[Pοrnytail]

There are a few reasons why some girls may be attracted to arrogant or "mean" guys:

1. It makes you seem high status and confident. By acting aloof and nonchalant, it gives the impression that you have other options and don't need any particular girl. This can be seen as a sign of high status.

2. It presents a "challenge." Some girls are drawn to the challenge of trying to win over an arrogant or emotionally distant guy. They see it as a test of their ability to change or elicit emotion from someone who seems "cold."

3. It goes against what's expected. By acting differently than what's commonly seen as "nice," it makes you stand out and seem unique or interesting. Girls may be curious to figure out the real you behind the act.

4. It triggers a "fixer" instinct in some girls. Some girls are attracted to emotionally unavailable guys because they want to "fix" or change them. They see it as a challenge or a project to make an arrogant guy open up.

5. It taps into deep-seated desires. On a deeper level, some girls are attracted to emotionally distant guys because it triggers feelings of wanting to be "chosen" by a guy who seems otherwise uninterested in most girls. It fulfills subconscious desires to "fix" or "tame" arrogant men.

So in summary, attraction is complex and doesn't always align with logic. While being arrogant or mean certainly doesn't make someone a healthier partner, it can trigger certain instinctual desires in some people that have more to do with their own psychology than yours. But rest assured, most emotionally healthy women are not attracted to arrogance - it's usually a red flag for them!

There are a few reasons why some girls may be attracted to arrogant or "mean" guys:

1. It makes you seem high status and confident. By acting aloof and nonchalant, it gives the impression that you have other options and don't need any particular girl. This can be seen as a sign of high status.

2. It presents a "challenge." Some girls are drawn to the challenge of trying to win over an arrogant or emotionally distant guy. They see it as a test of their ability to change or elicit emotion from someone who seems "cold."

3. It goes against what's expected. By acting differently than what's commonly seen as "nice," it makes you stand out and seem unique or interesting. Girls may be curious to figure out the real you behind the act.

4. It triggers a "fixer" instinct in some girls. Some girls are attracted to emotionally unavailable guys because they want to "fix" or change them. They see it as a challenge or a project to make an arrogant guy open up.

5. It taps into deep-seated desires. On a deeper level, some girls are attracted to emotionally distant guys because it triggers feelings of wanting to be "chosen" by a guy who seems otherwise uninterested in most girls. It fulfills subconscious desires to "fix" or "tame" arrogant men.

So in summary, attraction is complex and doesn't always align with logic. While being arrogant or mean certainly doesn't make someone a healthier partner, it can trigger certain instinctual desires in some people that have more to do with their own psychology than yours. But rest assured, most emotionally healthy women are not attracted to arrogance - it's usually a red flag for them!

There are a few reasons why some girls may be attracted to arrogant or "mean" guys:

1. It makes you seem high status and confident. By acting aloof and nonchalant, it gives the impression that you have other options and don't need any particular girl. This can be seen as a sign of high status.

2. It presents a "challenge." Some girls are drawn to the challenge of trying to win over an arrogant or emotionally distant guy. They see it as a test of their ability to change or elicit emotion from someone who seems "cold."

3. It goes against what's expected. By acting differently than what's commonly seen as "nice," it makes you stand out and seem unique or interesting. Girls may be curious to figure out the real you behind the act.

4. It triggers a "fixer" instinct in some girls. Some girls are attracted to emotionally unavailable guys because they want to "fix" or change them. They see it as a challenge or a project to make an arrogant guy open up.

5. It taps into deep-seated desires. On a deeper level, some girls are attracted to emotionally distant guys because it triggers feelings of wanting to be "chosen" by a guy who seems otherwise uninterested in most girls. It fulfills subconscious desires to "fix" or "tame" arrogant men.

So in summary, attraction is complex and doesn't always align with logic. While being arrogant or mean certainly doesn't make someone a healthier partner, it can trigger certain instinctual desires in some people that have more to do with their own psychology than yours. But rest assured, most emotionally healthy women are not attracted to arrogance - it's usually a red flag for them!

[HelpfulWoman]

uhuh. flies are attracted to trash. so you were attracting the flies of the female populace. It's not the flex you may think it is.

[Asker]

Lol, who hurt you? ... I agree with you on that concept but most of these girls were actually good looking and not giving other guys proper attention... I said I don't like it tho... I don't want a girl who was attracted to me for the wrong reasons ( in my opinion )..

[HelpfulWoman]

so you agreed with my comment but had the "who hurt you" comment? aight.

[Oliverlogan263]

There are a few reasons why some girls may be attracted to arrogant or "mean" guys:

1. It makes you seem high status and confident. By acting aloof and nonchalant, it gives the impression that you have other options and don't need any particular girl. This can be seen as a sign of high status.

2. It presents a "challenge." Some girls are drawn to the challenge of trying to win over an arrogant or emotionally distant guy. They see it as a test of their ability to change or elicit emotion from someone who seems "cold."

3. It goes against what's expected. By acting differently than what's commonly seen as "nice," it makes you stand out and seem unique or interesting. Girls may be curious to figure out the real you behind the act.

4. It triggers a "fixer" instinct in some girls. Some girls are attracted to emotionally unavailable guys because they want to "fix" or change them. They see it as a challenge or a project to make an arrogant guy open up.

5. It taps into deep-seated desires. On a deeper level, some girls are attracted to emotionally distant guys because it triggers feelings of wanting to be "chosen" by a guy who seems otherwise uninterested in most girls. It fulfills subconscious desires to "fix" or "tame" arrogant men.

So in summary, attraction is complex and doesn't always align with logic. While being arrogant or mean certainly doesn't make someone a healthier partner, it can trigger certain instinctual desires in some people that have more to do with their own psychology than yours. But rest assured, most emotionally healthy women are not attracted to arrogance - it's usually a red flag for them!

[Asker]

Nice , very informative

[Oliverlogan263]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

It's because demon possession is considered science fiction so has been allowed to run rampant in society. Most women have been possessed or influenced by the Jezebel spirit through the sins they were brainwashed or foolish enough to commit without repentance. That spirit loves toxic behaviour.

[Anonymous]

Because they are also arrogant and mean

[Opinion Owner]

Toxic people gravitate toward other toxic people

[Asker]

I see...