I was upset at something because I have trauma history and there’s a woman who is my best friend.
She was very sad when I was not texting her or when I didn’t see her right away as my friends know her and they told me she was sad.
When I showed up she said “I feel so happy now you are here”. Later on she told me “you need to improve your mood because I need you (my name). I can’t do it without you”
she has sent me wedding videos before and she has said things like “promise me you will never ignore me” and when I shared photos of things relating to love she was saying “I miss you all the time if only you knew”
This has not happened to me before. No woman has ever flat out said that they need me and has reacted so strongly in my absence. What is happening? I don’t want to ask her why she said that because it would be awkward
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What Girls Said
Well from what you write it sounds to me like she has got some feelings for you. I am hoping and guessing she is single? If she is she probably likes you as more than a friend by the things she is saying. While friends can be supportive and encouraging this kinda goes well beyond the normal call of duty as a friend. The things she is saying sound way more like hints or even flirting with you.
It sounds like this woman may have romantic feelings for you and is showing it in a subtle way. The fact that she says things like "I need you," "I can't do it without you," or "miss you all the time" suggest that she is missing your presence and wants you to be around. It's possible that she was also trying to comfort you during the times you were upset, by emphasizing the importance of your presence in her life. However, it's also possible that she has deeper feelings for you and is trying to hint at them.
I think she does like me. Could have just started to like me. She has missed other guy friends of hers but not in that way with me. She looked visibly upset like very badly
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