Please hear me out. I’ve never been miss popular, at least not to my knowledge. I have been made fun of a lot for my personality and appearance. Most of my time growing up j wanted to be cool and popular. In middle school I was a social climber. Was not successful. But my mindset was about what clothes to wear to be cooler, how to socially maneuver at school to be seen as cool.
as an adult I guess it’s still possible to be of that mind. But for example at work right now I wouldn’t be able to pinpoint who is the most popular. So it’s different than it was in school.
trust me if I had success as a social climber in middle school and then high school, I’d probably be really stuck up and be a Kim kardashian shallow type of person. Not to judge her but I’m just going based off her public image of someone who will wear and do anything even a naughty tape to climb the social ladder and hang out with richer and more popular people.
im like a failed Kim K or Paris Hilton.
just want to know, is there a positive aspect to having a brain wired like this? I don't know why it’s like this or if I’m still to this day even like that even half as much. But I want to find a way to use that part that’s within me for the good.
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It's hard for me to grasp your real meaning here. Because you present yourself like your social climber yet you're not a social climate you're a failed to social climber.
Honestly I think we've all failed when it comes to social climbing in one way or another. I'm sorry that you had to go through that in high school and middle school. But I think in the workplace and in the work environment it's less and less important than it's ever been before. Yes true Attractive people, taller people, more physically fit people tend to get more attention and are perceived to be smarter more capable.
I don't know if there's any advantage to having your brain wired the way it is and how you can make best use of that. But I will tell you this it doesn't have to be wired that way and you don't have to think or feel that way.
You are a little old to land a rich guy unless you have an amazing pair of tits.