Would you agree when someone doesn't make time for you - or makes plans to meet up in the distant future - they're not really interested in you?

[Anonymous]

My closest friend is confused.

This guy says he wants a relationship, future, etc. with her.

However when she asked to meet at his town & go out he said "no, maybe in a few weeks" and the only time he's concretely talked about meeting up is in the distant future - fall season - to do things. He hasn't once mentioned meeting up in his town or at house, etc.

Her two previous - only dated 3 guys - boyfriends were more into meeting. One even offered her his old car, as she was sharing a car with her brother at the time, to travel more easily.

Yes

Maybe

No

[Summeroflove]

If someone is legitimately busy. I understand that. But if they just intentionally don’t want to hang out. To me it says they’re not really into me.

[Asker]

He's not, he has a very easy job & he's not that social. IT guy they can be a bit wonky - he's a nice guy but social cues is not his strong suit.

Anyway he just blatantly lied to her he said earlier in the month his aunt & uncle were going to live with their son during renovations and now he's turned around and said that they can't meet at his place because his aunt / uncle are living at his house.

[Summeroflove]

Maybe she needs to consider someone else. You can’t force her to do something but she needs to find better.

[msc545]

Yes, but it doesn't matter. I have no time for them if they can't make time for me.

[Drewtate]

Keeping her on standby, probably another girl he's interested in or is dating.

[BourbonAndBacon]

She's just an option for him

[LiamJHayden]

Sounds like she is not a priority.