When girls get the wrong idea and think everyone is looking at their breasts or ass?

[Anonymous]

Lady's. Fella's.

The other day when i was in an appointment talking with my psychologist (who is female), Explaining a situation. While looking at her knees while explaining a story then looking left away from her, eyes shifting focus as one usually does when talking about / recalling events. after looking at the wall and then looking at her face / eyes again, and still talking, noticed she grabbed her open button up shirt, crossed it tightly and gave me a :o look, like a "what are you looking at pervert?" kind of look.

I was taken aback because i wasn't even checking her out and didn't look at her breasts or anything like that and it seems she got the wrong idea.

Whatsup with women like this?

[_Maya_]

I don't assume that. Maybe this woman does but it could be because of how many guys do actually look at us as objects. I am not saying all of them do but if you are trying to say none do then you are only kidding yourself. Maybe she is self conscious about her appearance or body and therefore a bit paranoid about people looking at her like that even though you weren't doing it. I don't know lol. She is the psychologist after all. Maybe some self reflection is needed. I just don't typically think that way or assume that is what every guy is looking at.

[HollyK21]

I don’t think she got the wrong idea, it’s just a moment of self awareness. Like if in her mind her too was hanging too low, as a woman and as a professional currently in a session with a patient, she probably felt awkward or embarrassed. Even if you weren’t looking or you felt like nothing was wrong with the top, it doesn’t mean she didn’t think differently.

[KorvoWintrish]

This is almost certainly it, it sounds like a moment of shocked "oh god my shirt's open", not "oh god he just looked at my tits". Most people aren't *that* sensitive about having their body briefly glanced over. Eyes dart around more than we even realize, people should look up "saccading" or "saccade" sometimes.

[HollyK21]

@korvo I very much agree! Seems more like an “oh shit” moment of shock, if her top was too low.

[Levin]

I dunno. But as a man your eyes do flit around and are drawn to certain areas. It's just natural and nature. As long as you don't stare I think it's alright.

[KorvoWintrish]

Everyone's eyes flit around, to be fair. The topic of saccades/saccading is rather interesting overall, and I'd encourage everyone to do even a bit of cursory reading on it.

[LiamJHayden]

They are probably correct more often than not.

[Anonymous]

Some women are just paranoid

[In_Trance]

I suppose it happens