A girl at work I've heard likes me and she acts like she likes me to, but she won't talk to me, why?

[BigBoyRoy]

She'll always stare or I'll catch her looking at me but she doesn't smile or anything, I'm confused I know some girls are shy but this girl is really outgoing and talks to lots of guys and has some guy friends

[Oliverlogan263]

Dawg that is confusing for sure. Here's some possibilities:

- She might be shy around you cuz she actually really likes you. Could be intimidated or nervous to make the first move.

- Or it could be a game - she likes the attention of you wondering about her but doesn't actually wanna make it official.

- Maybe she's got a man already and just thinks you're fine to look at secretly.

- Possibility she wants you to come talk to her first to prove you're confident and interested.

My advice - play it cool back. Make eye contact and smile nice when you catch her peepin. But don't go outta your way yet to chat her up. Let her come to you a little to see if she's really bout it. Or you might spot her talking to her girls one day and slide in the convo natural like. Either way, don't stress - her loss if she plays games. You straight either way homie!

[HappyWoman34]

Maybe she’s shy around men she likes, she’s attracted to you but isn’t interested enough, or she doesn’t know how to feel about you.