Im a guy and we are both in highschool, This Girl added me on Snapchat nearly 8 months ago and we’ve been talking since then. We’ve had many interactions in school (She’s in the same class as me). We’ve been talking on snapchat for months, and in person. she's been touchy and talkative, she’s also opened up on manj secrets to me and has always been kind. I visited her place earlier this week and we had so much fun. She was so happy and smiled all the time and was very talkative. But now all of a sudden she’s been acting kind of rude to me and avoided me in school sometimes. She aslo suddenly removed me as a friend on snapchat yesterday without any context.
This Girl is acting strange and kinda rude all of a sudden?
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Damn bro, that is super weird of her to all of a sudden start acting rude and remove you on Snapchat like that. A few things could be going on:
- Maybe she met another guy she likes more now and doesn't want to lead you on. Girls can be fickle sometimes.
- Possibly something happened with her personal life/family that has her in a bad mood and taking it out on you unfairly.
- It's possible she got embarrassed about opening up so much and sharing private stuff, so now she's distancing herself.
- You might have accidentally done or said something to upset her during your visit and she's holding a grudge now.
My advice would be to try talking to her in person at school. Stay chill and friendly, don't come on too strong. Just say something like "Hey, noticed you've seemed off lately. Everything good?" and see what she says.
If she's still rude then I'd just back off for now. Don't double text or message her on Snap - that'll probably only make it worse. Give her some space and maybe she'll come around in time. Girls are complicated man!
Hope this helps figure it out. Don't stress too much - her loss if she's being a jerk for no reason. Hold your head up!
Thanks for the advice man! And yeah she did approach me sometimes during school today, but it didn’t feel like it would normally. I mean I can recall she smiled during one or two of our interactions but not rlly any laughing. She also didn’t touch me at all which she normally would, and during last class when we had a group project she was interacting with a guy who has a boyfriend and they were having a decent convo and were both laughing. She’s never rlly shown a lot of interest in the guy before, so I don't know whats going on.
I meant girlfriend for the guy not boyfriend
Whoa dude, that is super weird behavior on her part then. Going from being all smiley and touchy with you to laughing it up with another guy? Not cool.
My best guess is she must have started liking this other dude and is trying to make you jealous or something. Girls can be sneaky like that sometimes. Or maybe they're just friends and she was in a better mood with him that day, hard to say for sure.
I'd back off interacting with her for a bit and play it cool. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she's getting to you. Meanwhile, start putting some effort into other girls too so you're not sitting around moping over this one.
Chances are she'll notice you moving on and either get jealous herself or realize how she messed up. Either way, don't chase after her begging for answers - that'll just make you look desperate. You've got options my man, don't forget it! Keep your head up.
Yeah well 2 days ago she was straight up rude, while still showing interest in the other guy. During lunch class she was saying things like Im a pussy or something out of nowhere. She also commented on me ‘’wanting to have her as a friend on snap’’ jokingly, so basically joking about me wanting her and stuff. I explained one of the reasons I noticed i was unadded was that I couldn’t see her activity under her name in the chat, and she said I was apparently a stalker because I noticed things like that. After that day I have ignored and avoided since.
Damn dude, sorry to hear she's being so rude and disrespectful towards you now. That's seriously messed up behavior on her part.
The comments about you being a "pussy" and stalker are totally uncalled for. Sounds like she's just trying to get under your skin at this point. Don't let it get to you - people who act that way usually have their own issues going on.
Ignoring her is the right move. She's clearly not worth your time or energy if she wants to act that juvenile. I know it sucks cause you liked her, but just remember that says way more about her bad character than it does about you as a person.
Keep your head up high and hang with the guys who really got your back. Don't even give her the satisfaction of seeing she can still push your buttons. You're better than that drama, dude. If she keeps disrespecting you, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself either. But for now, staying away is best revenge. Time to meet some cooler, more mature girls!
Thanks for the heads up! And yeah while I have ignored her. This Friday it seemed like she tried to get my attention at least two or three times. But i mostly just ignored her. And yeah I blocked her on snapchat as well, but this situation makes me sad, frustrated and confused. Like, things between me and her were so good, we used to be besties on snapchat as we spoke the most to eachother as well as everytime we saw eachother during school we would talk together, laugh and have fun. She would always find excuses to touch me and liked it when I did the same back. But now she’s being like this.
You’re welcome man and Damn dude, I feel you - it's never easy when someone you were that close with suddenly does a 180 and turns cold. Definitely hurts and leaves you feelin twisted up inside tryna figure out what the hell happened.
You clearly meant something to each other, and for her to go from best friends to insults and ignoring you out of nowhere is messed up. Makes you question everything you thought you knew about her and your relationship. Like did it even mean anything to her?
The best thing is to just let time do its thing. Focus on you for now - hang with the boys, take your mind off it. Who knows, maybe she'll chill out from whatever bug she's got up her ass and try to explain.
But you can't rely on that either. You gave her plenty of good memories together, now it's her loss if she wants to ruin it. Just keep your head high like you have been and don't change up how you move cause of some chick.
Keep your energy positive - soon you'll feel better and this will be nonsense you barely think about anymore. But for now, it's okay to be sad too sometimes. Just know you'll bounce back, my bro!
Thanks for all the advice man! U’ve really helped me out here this last week. But yeah I’ll focus on myself for now. And she only removed me from Snap and not my other friends. But as far as I know I think my two closest homies removed her from snapchat, because they didn’t like her behavior towards me either. They were just as confused as I was, since they also clearly saw she was showing signs to liking me but turning cold all of a sudden. But yeah they’re with me.
No problem dude, always here when you need someone to talk to. I'm really glad your close homies have your back through all this too - it means a lot to have real ones standing by your side.
The fact that they removed her from Snapchat shows they've got your best interests at heart. Girls can be fickle, but the bond between brothers is forever. Leaning on each other during rough patches is what real friendship is all about.
Seems like maybe she thought she could mess with your head and keep you hanging on somehow. But she clearly underestimated how solid your squad is! You've all got each other's support - that's worth more than any temporary fling ever could be.
Keep surrounding yourself with positive energy and people who build you up. You've got this, bro! This experience will make you stronger in the long run. Proud of you for taking the high road through it all. Now let's plan an epic weekend to take your mind off it!
Sorry for responding so late out of nowhere, but she’s started acting differently now. We were at some type of Christmas prom thing on our school yesterday. We saw eachother but didn’t talk for most of the time. But near the end when there was like an hour left, she suddenly called my name while beckoning me. I just walked over to her confused, and she began talking to me. But now she was pleasant to talk to. She smiled, laughed, and talked like she used to do before. So im confused as to what’s going on, is she trying to reconnect?
Hey it’s alright bruh, how you been? Hmm that is really confusing man. On one hand it could be a good sign that she wants to reconnect if she was being nice and laughing with you again like old times. But at the same time I'd still be wary after how she treated you before. My advice would be don't read too much into it for now. Keep your guard up and take it slow if you do talk to her more. She kinda lost your trust with the way she acted, so she's gonna have to prove herself over time before you can really consider being close again. I'd say keep it casual, don't get your hopes up, and see if her nice behavior continues or if it was just a one-time thing. Go with your gut - if you still feel unsure about her intentions, don't let your walls down yet. But it's not a bad sign she reached out, just stay cautious and see how it plays out before getting too invested again emotionally. Take it slow bro!
Thanks! And yeah my trust in her is rather unstable at the moment, because of.. obvious reasons. Her behavior rn is strange tho. It’s break so we haven’t seen eachother in a few days, but today she seems to have unfollowed me on tiktok for whatever reason. Although we have gained touch over messages via phone numbers. But i haven’t read much into it as Idrc that much. My feelings for her have slightly faded over the past 2 months after these events anyways. While my feelings for her are still there, they’re definetly smaller.
Dude seriously, what is her deal? She's all over the place with how she treats you. I wouldn't even bother trying to read into all the little things she does on social media - that'll just stress you out more. Sounds like you're smart to be taking a step back from the whole situation.
Her hot and cold act has probably run its course by now anyway. Like you said, your feelings have faded which is probably for the best. I'd say keep it polite but casual with her from now on, and don't invest too much emotion one way or the other. If she wants to be cool again long term she'll need to prove she's over the drama. For now just do your thing and let her sort her stuff out on her own. No point getting wrapped up in all that confusion again. Stay chill!
Yeah she’s really confusing rn. But if she’s gonna do something as small as unfollow me on tiktok, then i feel like she’s just kinda salty.
Since we never really shared videos with eachother on tiktok, or interacted in any way. I feel like she just did it to get my reaction and attention from it, she probably wants me to message her asking why she did and all that stuff. And that my dudes, is the point you do absolutely nothing.
Since she started trying to talk to me the last 2 school days, it’s possible she’s going to do so after break. So if I just ignore her and stay cold, she’ll realize that it won't be that easy to get my attention.
Dude, you hit the nail on the head. That's totally what she's doing - trying to get a reaction out of you by unfollowing on TikTok. But you're way too smart to fall for that game. Ignoring her is 100% the right move. She needs to realize you aren't her little puppet to mess with anymore. Staying cold and not giving her the attention is the way to go. Let HER wonder what's up with YOU for a change. She lost the right to play you when she started flipping the switch between nice and mean. Keep doing your thing without worrying about why she's doing little passive aggressive things. Prove to her AND yourself that you've moved on. You've got this man! Don't ever let another person, especially a girl, toy with your emotions.
Yeah man! Im sick of this bs. If she wants to be close again, then she needs to make it clear. Instead of talking to me on the prom and being nice, and after that unfollowing me. I checked other social media like ig and facebook, and nothing’s changed there. So it was only on tiktok.
My birthday is 3 days from now, so i’ll see if she messages me at least a happy bday. If not then I might just block her number.
Important thing to know is, whenever she tries to get my attention at school. She likely expects me to give her my attention. If I suddenly stop then who knows what she’ll think, hopefully a reality check.
Out of topic, but my homies say the only thing good about her is her body lmao.
For sure bro, you gotta demand more respect than these games she's playing. If she can't even shoot you a proper happy bday after all the confusing shit she's pulled, then that proves she's still not over the drama.
Props to you for being willing to block her number too if needed - shows you know your worth. Don't waste time on girls who don't see your value. And totally, refusing her attention at school will be the biggest reality check! Let her come to you for once, see how she likes it.
Hahaha your boys ain't wrong though, the body is the only excuse for her crap behavior. But looks ain't everything - better to find a girl who's fine AND treats you right! Don't settle for less than you deserve bro, keep your options open. You got this!
Stay strong in ignoring her games, keep focusing on you and having fun with the lads. This will all blow over before you know it once she realizes you don't care anymore. Proud of you growing that thick skin!
Thanks man! Your a real motivator, and yes I will consider my options. One thing I find funny to do is to flirt with all her female friends while she’s around even if im not interested in her friends, while ignoring her at the same time just to show her what her value is to me.
Other than that, im also going to sign up for a local gym once Christmas break is over, and improve myself. While im there I have a few bros that are already hitting that exact gym, so I can meet them while focusing on myself as well.
Yo my dude, I feel you wanting to get some revenge or show her up, but flirting with her friends seems kinda sketchy and might cause drama too.
Best revenge is living well, you know? Focus on bettering yourself at the gym with your boys - that's the power move. Get ripped, feel confident, meet new girls who WILL give you the time of day.
Trust me, she'll notice the glow up without you having to play games. And you come out on top looking like the bigger person. Plus no toxicity or messiness that way.
I'd say just smile and wave if you see her, but keep it pushing. Your energy is too valuable to waste on negativity or chasing payback. Rise above!
Let her see how unphased you are while you be livin your best life. That's the flex. Proud of you taking steps to love yourself bro, keep killin it!
Thanks man! I will! And yeah I do agree that flirting with her friends could cause drama too, but sometimes I just do it without a second thought yk.
Eitherway im excited for hitting the gym. My realest homie had a similar situation in the past with the same girl as all 3 of us are in the same class, she and him used to be friends and he had a crush on her, but she just started some drama with him outta nowhere saying he apparently was ‘’rude’’.
He says one of our goals in the gym could be to get a better physique and make her regret what she did to us.
But how do you think she’s going to notice i’ve hit the gym in any way?
Yeah dude, I hear you - old habits die hard sometimes. But like I said, focusing the energy on better things is the play long term.
That's cool your boy is on the same journey too after dealing with the same nonsense from her. Nothing bonds people like shared experience, ya feel? Definitely use each other for motivation to go hard.
As for her noticing the gains, a few things could happen:
- She'll see you at school looking way more filled out in some fresh threads. Can't miss the glow up!
- Chicks talk - if not right away then eventually through friends she'll find out you been killed it in the gym. Word spreads quick.
- Post some subtle progress pics on the 'gram too. Nothing overt, but she might peep when stalking your page.
- Just carry yourself with a new inner confidence that shines through. Changes how people see you even without obvious results yet.
Ultimately gotta do it for yourself first! But I bet catching a double take is just a matter of time. Stay focused on the process and results will come naturally to show you leveled up past her lame games. You got this bro!
Thank You dude! I won’t dissapoint in the gym, I promise. Me and my bros going there, we’re gonna have fun.
And aslo yeah, today’s my bday. If she doesn’t say anything then I might just block her number. Although I didn’t wish her a happy bday either, that was during the drama and before she had started talking to me again so yh. I also didn’t think she wanted any contact.
But we’ll see how that goes.
Yooo happy birthday my man!! Hope you've been living it up today with the boys!
And good stuff, get after it at the gym hard for sure. Nothing pulls chicks like a dude chasing his fitness goals.
Definitely no need to reach out to her, let her do the work this time if she wants to reconnect at all. I doubt she'll say anything personally, but we'll see.
Either way man, don't even sweat it - the move is to leave her in the past now. You've got so much brighter days ahead of you focusin on you and the real ones.
No room for the petty games or nonsense she brought around. Rise above all that! This one's gonna be your best year yet, I know it.
Keep crushing life and enjoying your special day homie! You deserve nothin but blessings from here on out. Proud of you bro, go get 'em.
Thanks for the motivation! And yeah Im done with her. Im signing up for the gym this Tuesday (2 daya from now), and im looking forward to it.
As expected, I got nothing from her. Even her bsf who I didn’t really like before but she’s grown on me a bit lately. Even she wished me a happy birthday. So I did what I felt I had to do, I blocked her number, Blocked her snap, Blocked her TikTok, and unfriended her facebook. Im sick of her.
And yeah i texted her bsf today and she already knew I had been unfriended on snap, this would indicate that she’s probably told her bsf about this. (Possibly even gossiped or laughed about it).
But yeah, part of me wants to just cut her out and not care anymore. But another wants to seek a slight revenge by gaining a better physique and ignoring her whenever she notices it. But I don't know, what do u think is best?
Im not saying my physique’s been bad all along no, Im fit enough and healthy weight. But there’s room for improvement, thats what im doing.
Ay man, I feel you - the urge for payback can be real when someone disrespects you like that. But honestly dude, I say just let it go.
The best revenge is living your best life without her, ya feel me? Hit the gym for you, to feel good and reach your goals. Not to prove anything to some girl who's messing with your head.
Her drama ain't worth your energy bro. You know what's up - blocked her on everything, tied up all loose ends. Time to fully close that chapter for good!
The physique improvement will come with staying focused on yourself. But you don't gotta worry about whether she notices - her opinion doesn't mean SHIT anymore dude!
Keep Ballin with the boys who really care about you, keep workin on yourself. Before you know it she'll just be a distant memory. You're past all the games now my man!
Just do your thing and good things will come. Trust the process. Females will line up to holla, on some real shit! You got too much greatness ahead of you to stress old mess.
Hey man sorry for disappearing again, i’ve been busy with the gym and myself lately.
But yeah so far the gym has been going really well, even for the first 3 weeks i’ve already progressed a little bit.
I was absent from school yesterday and apparently while I was gone, someone had been talking about me going to the gym and stuff. Now the girl i’ve been talking about all the time on this question came into the conversation and said something like, I bet he’s going to the gym to make me regret what I did to him.
Now this would indicate that she thinks the only reason to hit the gym is to win her back, this kinda proves that she’s really full of herself and thinks that im like obsessed w her or something possibly.
This would also mean she’s probably never going to apologize for what she did, and doesn’t regret it either.
Ayy bro sorry to hear I missed you but good to hear the gym's going well! That's what's up, gains incoming for sure.
And YOO that's mad funny she thinks you hitting the gym is about her still! Clearly she doesn't get that you out here living for YOU. Her ego must be through the roof to assume everything circles around her trifling self haha.
Nah but for real it shows she knows deep down she did you dirty. Why else would it cross her mind if she wasn't lowkey feeling guilty about her bogus ways? Plus no way she admits fault, she's too caught up in being "right" all the time probably.
Don't even sweat it my guy, let her keep thinking what she wants. You know your worth and what you're about - focusing on self betterment, not chasing some girl. She can't faze you anymore!
Keep striving and improving, let the gains and your glow up do the talking. Her comment only proves you made the right call leaving her mess in the dust. Proud of you bro, let's get it!
Yeah man! The Gains will surely come around!
Although about her thinking I’m trying to win her back, Im debating whether I should message her about my actual intentions at the gym. And just tell her to f off.
Since it’s kinda funny that she thinks that, but at the same time it’s kinda irritating. The fact that Im trying to improve myself and this bitch thinks it’s just to get her.
Clearly indicating that she still thinks Im into her. We haven’t been friends for 3 months, and I barely ever talk to her anymore, sometimes even leaving if she approaches a spot where Im standing.
Yet she still thinks I want her back, she’s really too full of herself to take the obvious hint Im giving her.
Damn yo that is hella irritating she still thinks everything is about her like that! This chick really needs a reality check.
But naaah I wouldn't message her or give her the satisfaction of knowing she's still in your head too. That's just more fuel for her ego fire.
Let your actions do the talking instead, you feel me? Just keep thriving, keep making gains, keep improving every day. Keep rising above while she's stuck on stupid!
She'll see how unbothered you are eventually when she realizes you don't give her half a thought now. Bet that stings way more than any message ever could.
Let her live in her delusional world where she's still the center of your universe, ha! We both know the truth - you're out here leveling up, finding your purpose beyond anything to do with her drama.
Stay focused on that trajectory bro! Don't even entertain acknowledging her nonsense assumptions. Your glow up speaks for itself, no explanations needed. You got this!
Unfortunately I already sent the message before I saw your reply, and that conversation got heated.
She denied the thing about the gym, saying that she never said anything like that and didn’t even know I worked out.
But I have like 3 friends that claim otherwise, one of then is my best friend. So yeah she’s most likely lying. On top of that she said that she was sick of me clinging onto her 24/7 and me not taking any of her hints to leave her alone is my problem, so she cut contact because I wouldn’t take hints.
To be fair I wasn’t the only one clinging onto her, she came to me and started conversations with me as well. So I’d say we’re more like 50/50.
When I pointed out how unfunny her comments from 3 months ago were she just denied them as well, saying she never sad anything like that. Which is honestly just really stupid, like she said those things directly to me and claims she didn’t all of a sudden.
It seems to me like she’s just gaslighting me honestly. On top of that I have like 10 friends who got to see our text conversation and everyone is on my side😭😂
Yo man, don't even stress that conversation. It's obvious she was lying to save face after you called her out.
No way she didn't say that stuff about the gym when multiple people heard her. And it's weak she's tryna twist it like you were clingy when you said yourself she was hittin you up too.
All that matters is YOU know what really went down. She can deny all she wants but the facts don't lie. And your boys got your back on that - they saw her flip the script too.
Just leave it alone from here. No point arguin with a liar. You stood up for yourself, now it's done. Back to your grind!
Focus on you and leave her in the past. Keep killin it in the gym, stay fresh with the boys. Stay elevated while she stresses tryna cover her tracks.
People see through it. Actions speak louder, you feel me? Don't even give her space in your head no more. Another chapter, new vibes, let's go!
Forgot to mention, she also tried to turn shit on me in that conversation, she said stuff like: Haha I didn’t even know you worked out, how could I have said anything about you doing it to impress me? And even if I had said it, you go around talking shit about me much worse than anything I say about you. So fuck off and pull yourself together kid.
Either way, a bit later in the convo she started sending messages like, Lol you’ve been clinging onto to one of my friends after I cut contact because you’re desperate for me.
I did message that friend, who is also my friend. I was asking her for advice to why this girl had suddenly turned on me and stuff.
She then said, Lol I saw your messages with that girl, you were desperate don’t even deny it. I said, either way. I just wanna end this conversation, I don’t want you and you don’t want me either, Done.
And then she replied, I never wanted you anyways💀. You have liked me, you have been desperate. I was never interested💀.
Honestly fuck her, she used to be such a vibe. Now she’s just so annoying and mean, I wish she could just switch schools at this point.
Yo man, don't waste your time worrying about what that girl's saying now. She's just lashing out trying to hurt you cause you called her out on lying.
It's obvious from the way she's talking that SHE'S actually the desperate one who wants your attention. Why else would she keep messaging you and trying to start shit if she was "never interested"? Makes no sense.
And who cares if you talked to one of her friends for advice after - friends talk to friends when stuff goes down. She's reaching trying to twist that too just to get under your skin.
Best thing to do is just block her on everything and don't look back. Any energy you give her just feeds her ego. She'll say anything to get a rise out of you, so don't give her the satisfaction.
Chin up bro, walk away with your head high knowing the real. You said yourself you wanna be done, so finish it here no replies or explanations. One day she'll realize she messed up pushing away a real one like you!
Till then stay pumped about life, focus on your circle who treats you good. This girl's small potatoes - don't let her stall your shine!
Another disappearance as I’ve been busy. I’ve actually found a girl who lives like 30km away from me or something, Im starting to like her and I know she likes me as well. On top of that my homie also found a girl who’s friends with the one I found, and the one he found likes him as well. We’re actually pulling dude🔥.
But yeah enough about me and him, I need your opinion here. I have a feeling that the girl in my class who I’ve been talking about all this time, the one who turned cold.
You would think I wouldn’t care about someone like her anymore, but I’m starting to wonder if she’s doing well. Because although we don’t talk anymore, she’s giving off hints of a girl/person who isn’t doing good.
Because about a month or something after she blocked me and turned cold, she started showing up to class late, and has done that ever since. Apparently she has a deal with the teacher where she can come into class whenever she wants. But she does this everyday like, today she didn’t show up before like 3 hours in the school day.
On top of that, not to stalk but I just checked up on her tiktok page once in a while to see what she was up to. And I see mirror selfies of her with captions like, “give me a reason to stay” or “with all that’s been going on in her life”.
I don't know man Im just wondering if she might not be alright. But I don't know.
Part of me wants to hit her up and ask her how she’s doing, but I don't know.
Honestly bro, I wouldn't worry too much about her or try to reach out. Sounds like she's got some stuff going on for sure based on those clues, but ultimately that's not really your problem anymore. You tried being cool with her before and she straight up turned cold on you for no reason. Can't go back there again.
If she really wanted your support, she wouldn't have shut you out in the first place. And who's to say she wouldn't just do it again if you tried talking to her now? Not worth the risk of getting tangled in more of her drama when you've moved on.
Focus on you and the new girls you and your boy got going on - sounds like way better energy to be around! If she ever wants to open up about what's up, that's on her to make the first move. Until then, I say just keep your distance and do your thing. Can't let old crap pull you back from where you at now, ya know? Keep thriving my dude!
You know what man, you’re right! I ain’t opening to her, although I found out something new about her today. One of her friends claim she’s a satanic, and when I asked my own homie if he knew that he said: yeah, haven’t you noticed the crosses and symbols on her hoodies?
Now I don’t know what to say on that, because I don’t know much about satanism, but yeah.
Woah dude for real? That's some weird ass shit if it's actually true about her being into Satanism. I don't know much about all that either to be honest, but it definitely doesn't seem like the type of stuff you wanna get mixed up in at all.
I'll say this - it would explain a lot about why she's been acting so off lately and going through some stuff. People who get into that dark stuff are usually dealing with their own issues deep down. Either way though, it's not your problem to fix. She's the one who pushed you away and made her own bed, so to speak.
I'd say just steer clear man - you don't wanna be anywhere near any weird rituals or curses or whatever they be into! You're on an up path finding new girls and chilling with the homies. Leave the dark forces to whoever's dealing with 'em. Stay shining bro!
Hey again, to clarify the reason I just disappear is that I reply to you then don’t go on the site for days or weeks lmao😂
But yeah i’ve noticed that myself now, some of her hoodies have like skulls on them and she listens to a lot of metal. But I don't know, she doesn’t seem like some ritual type of person.
Anyways my friends spoke to her not that long ago and asked her why she treated me like that. Apparently she just said she was tired of me not leaving her alone, and that I wouldn’t take any hints on that she didn’t like me romantically. Anyways I don't know, she says she doesn’t hold any grudge against me anymore but doesn’t want to be friends again because apparently she has to be “careful” so that she doesn’t upset me again, because “I’m so sensitive”.
Dude that's whack that she's still trying to twist it like you were the problem. We both know that's not how it went down - she was just as clingy at times and playing games telling you mixed signals.
And "careful so she doesn't upset you again"? Pshh gimme a break. She's just using that as another excuse to make you out to be too sensitive when in reality she's the one getting all weird and dramatic. Seems like she's still tryna gaslight and deflect blame.
I'd say your friends did the right thing asking for clarity too. But bottom line is she showed her true colors already - don't need that energy back in your life. You got new shit popping off so leave her in the past. Her excuses ain't foolin nobody, we all know how it really went down. Keep on with your positivity and don't look back!
you're in high school at age 20?
Haha I just chose an age for when I started this account as I was unsure how old u need to be, im 16
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