my ex and i broke up a week ago, to cut a long story short, a couple days after the breakup, she started to call me at nighttime, however only tonight she decided to call me on facetime. she wants to be fuckbuddies still with no strings attached so my feelings aren't hurt, i am still in love with her. i am the only guy thats really treated her right. like srsly i spent my entire holidays working mostly very late night shifts to work up the money to take her to a restaurant she really likes but is really expensive. she tells me about how she has guys in her snap, I've only seen one of the alleged “5” in her snapchat when i looked at her phone. these guys are which she intends to hookup with to experience something new. she's told me and her best friends she still feels love for me (not recently tho last time i heard it was Friday last week) if you want more information to make your answer’s accurate ill be happy to abswer questions and reply. but girls, is the calling thing plus extra just because she wants to feel the empowerment of me still loving her? or does she still love me?
Ladies, what does this mean?
What Girls Said
Just end it she is stringing you along keeping you in feelings for sex and attention.
She is going through a slut phase and wants you for sex and to explore any other guys who just want her.
Basically the girl who wanted to be good for you and good guys is looking for the wrong attention and just being a slut.
a lot of girls who finally were treated good... Go back when something dramatic like a break up happens.
Most get pregnant or jus Thier worse and stuck in this phase. Like the single moms with 4 kids... Who flirts with anything? That will be her and the more you try to stop it the more she will want it.
She needs good friends not bfs now
why will she want it more, idek why she left i gave her 110% i did so much for her
She has her reasons and if she did not tell you then it's nothing you did!
Probably got all in her head you cheated or some other thing she made up.
Might even just be it got to real and serious she is worried to be hurt.
she did think i wanted other girls throughout the entire relationship, and because of her exes she was very scared id hurt her, she even said in the relationship she didn't wanna put in all her love because last time it happened she got fucked over, could i have done anything in the relationship to fully have her know for a fact that she was safe with me?
Nope it was all her!
Basically you gave her what she wanted and she got scared could not trust could never have been more with you.
She has to heal on her own and that path will just rip her heart open more till she has 3 kids and like 5 bfs constantly
so there's deadass nothing she could possibly have for me? fullstop?
Have for you?
She probably never truly loved you got close and that scared her
So she can easily be friends with benefits and fuck every one else too.
You were all in 110 she was like 20 percent in
bro no fucking way you said the friends with benefits cause thats legit what she said, it confuses me tho cause she moved from the side of family she loved to the one she hated who live a good 9 hour drive away to go to the same school as me and live near me so we could be together
Well she jumped ship probably needed some rough abuse emotionally
It's how she used to get love so maybe she felt you did not love her.
Really her choice nothing you could have done
Don't be friends with benefits hurting yourself more
i just can't bring myself to do that tho like i love her so much she doesn't needa have to be there one small thing reminds me of her like a chair that she sat on when i was worh her is enough for my thougbts to be flooded woth her
Certain type of girls always just want to play, have fun, get validated, seek attention.
this one is not loyal.
you want to be her toy?