So I am a guy (M24) and there’s this girl (F23) that from the beginning, I noticed she was always very friendly and all around a good person. We kind of hit it off really quickly and I noticed she was being more friendly and engaged with me. I have a feeling she likes me, but I would like to have external confirmation, just o make sure I’m not delusional. Here are the signs she’s given:
- Laughs at all my jokes, no matter how corny they may be. Will playfully hit/shove me when I clown her or make a dark joke.
- Verbally agrees with all my relationship preferences and views on love.
- Asks me about my ideals in life and relationship. (i. e. when I want to marry, how many kids, etc.)
- Asks me about what I like and dislike in life. What things & food do I find comforting.
- Touches hair and face when talking to me.
- We look at each other when we laugh in a group setting.
- Always super close to me and makes body contact when telling me something private.
- Takes Snapchat filtered photos of me, thinking I don’t notice.
- Acknowledges that I’m the first person to notice when she does something new to her hair.
What are y’all’s thoughts?
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Based on what you've described, it does sound like she's into you. A few signs that stood out:
- Laughing at your jokes even when they're corny - that's a classic sign a girl likes a guy. She wants to encourage you.
- Asking about your relationship ideals and what you want in the future - that's getting personal and showing investment in you as a potential partner.
- Touching her hair/face when talking to you - a common nervous habit girls do when they like someone. It draws attention to themselves.
- Always being close to you and making physical contact when telling you private things - she's creating intimacy and closeness.
- Taking Snapchat selfies of you - girls generally only do that with people they find attractive and want to look at photos of later.
- Noticing small things you do to your appearance - shows she pays attention to you in that way.
My advice would be to try flirting a bit more openly with her - subtle compliments, light physical touches here and there, teasing smiles. Gauge her reaction. If she seems into it, ask her out clearly as a date. The signs are there that she's open to it. Just be confident and see where it leads! Let me know how it goes.
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