So before I worked at this grocery store this girl would look at me when I went in and thought nothing of it. So since it is near my house I decided to work there to pay down bills. I noticed she sat at my table on lunch break. Also just as I came out of the restroom I noticed she was walking by just as I opened the door. When I came back she was chatting with another coworker near my register. I also kept seeing her around other people talking and kept walking by my register with other people. I also thought I kept seeing her stare at me. We finally did work next to each other and teased each other a bit but the first time I talked to her she seemed startled. Also when she came over and talked she put her hands behind her back and twisting around. She has also asked about my lunch time. I want to ask her for her contacts while having plausible deniability. I would ask for Snap but might come across as wanting something, but I just want to be comfortable. I was thinking about asking about asking for an app she likely does not have (telegram) and she could offer snap or whatever. I am probably overthinking this but don't want to.
Umm this is kinda tricky bro. It definitely seems like she might like ya but it's hard to know for sure. Girls can be confusing sometimes. I'd say just try talking to her more when you get the chance at work, like when it's not too busy. Maybe make her laugh with some jokes. Then if it feels right, you could ask for her number by being like "hey, we should hang out after work sometime" or something casual like that. Don't stress too much about the exact words. And don't pressure her or anything if she's not sure. You don't wanna risk making things awkward at work. Just see how it goes talkin more first before asking her out. Good luck man!
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Yes you are overthinking this greatly. There a coffee shop nearby? next time you have a shift that ends together, ask her halfway through the shift if she wants to walk over (or whatever) and grab coffee and a snack after work.
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