There’s this girl at my job who has a boyfriend but every coworker (even the owner) says she likes me. Feels like a Jim & Pam situation. What do I do?

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Note, she doesn’t seem to smile when she’s around her boyfriend. She laughs around me and makes an effort to talk to me when Im around especially when im talking to female coworkers. She always gives me major eye contact when we talk. Part of me feels like she’s looking for a rebound because of certain questions she’s asked me. Example: She asked me who do I live with, I told her with my mom and grandma. She says “damn, I wish I could live with my folks but they’re just too toxic” then I asked her the same question. She answered “I live in an apartment”. I know for a fact she heard the question but decided not have actually answer it. I found out she lives with her boyfriend through a coworker and she was trying to keep it a secret from me. I hate that l like her…please help.

There’s this girl at my job who has a boyfriend but every coworker (even the owner) says she likes me. Feels like a Jim & Pam situation. What do I do?
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