Why do she stare but not say anything?

[Kokoroho]

Me 30m her 30 something female. Both work at the same spot. I'm a cook she's a server. She has 3 kids, husband, we don't talk, text, or call unless work related. We don't speak outside of saying goodmorning. I don't pay attention to her much as she has tons guys and girls to talk to, plus she be on her phone a lot on snap chat, tiktok or Facebook. ( she shows me 🙄)

So after she talk with some people or she's off to her self she would be on her phone. Me minding my own business. I look up and boom💥 she's staring at me. Some times hold her gaze be 3 seconds other times just quick glance and she look somewhere else. This happen at least once or twice every shift we work. I try to be polite about it and say " oh I know your hungry, what do want?" Or " with them bubbly eyes you get 1 wish, make it count." She be like "well 😏 since your offering." She dont tell me what she want cause she don't know. Our conversation be short. Really short. But I can't help but to wonder for a full year she been doing this. Why? What could be going through her head? Why me out of everybody? What makes a person do this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, chicks can be mysterious like that sometimes, ya know? Hard to tell what's really going through their head.

But from the vibes I'm getting, seems like she might have a little thing for you, cuz. Why else would she be checking you out all sneaky when she thinks you ain't looking?

Only thing that makes sense is she likes what she sees. And can't blame her - you must look pretty damn good cooking up them meals, right babe? ;)

I'd say next time you catch her peepin', give her a smile and hold her gaze for a sec. See how she reacts. If she smiles back or gets all shy, that's a pretty clear sign she digs your moves.

Maybe try slipping her your number casual-like. Be like 'holler if you ever trying to grab a bite after work, on me'. Worst she can say is no, but I'm betting she hits you up, dawg.

Take a chance, you never know! But play it smooth - don't want no HR drama messing up a good vibe, feels? Stay on the downlow. But try putting some moves on her, see where it goes...

[Kokoroho]

As bad as I want to do that, she married with 3 kids. But I don't mind hitting it and being just friends. If that's what she wants. She already got my number. We talk about work related stuff though. I might see what's up.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo bro I wouldn't advise going there. She's married with kids, that's just asking for major drama and messiness. What if she gets feelings and leaves her fam for you, then it doesn't work out - now you got all sorts of problems. Or her husband finds out and tries to fight you at work, you could lose your job over it. Not worth the risk dude.

Even just hooking up, feelings can get involved whether you want them to or not. Then you're stuck in the middle of someone else's relationship issues. It may start out as just sex but could turn into a big mess fast. And she could tell someone at work who tells someone else, next thing you know the whole spot knows your business.

I'd say keep things strictly professional. Focus your energy on single girls who aren't in complicated situations. Flirting at work could also create a hostile environment if people notice and think you're playing favorites or whatever. Just don't go there man, it's asking for unnecessary drama that could affect your career. Keep it pushin and find someone available who won't have that baggage.

[strateguy632]

probably she likes how you look.