Girls, Why are these young women that work at the supermarket so friendly when I’m just a customer?

[Anonymous]

They are really friendly to me but to the other customers they are just normal. I don’t understand it I am a regular customer and I go there usually very early in the morning

I have not spoken to any of them at all and one of them was looking at me a lot.
there is one - I don’t know if it is the same woman - she was shy but friendly but I didn’t say anything back because I was leaving and she got in my line of vision as I was leaving. Like she stood up and looked at me slightly in my face

Its weirded me out but can anyone help me to understand what’s going on? Because it’s my understanding that like store workers usually don’t have anything to do with customers lol just like bartenders don’t normally care about the patrons they serve

You’re cute

They want to connect with you

One of them may be crushing

Very friendly ladies

[_Maya_]

Brush. It's their job dude. I work in the hospitality industry bartending. Do you wanna come back to a place with shit bartenders that give you attitude? I'd get fired my man. I have to put on a show no matter the sexual advances and inappropriate comments I get. After years of doing it I'm pretty numb anymore. Something I just brush off. Don't believe that some girls that have a job to make customers happy have a thing for you. That mighty presumptuous on you part.

[Asker]

I don’t 😂 I asked to double check

[Asker]

What a lot of guys don’t do is double check. They assume some young woman being friendly means that she wants them. It’s incredibly incorrect. Sometimes things like that do happen (a bartender develops feelings for a customer) but most of the time they don’t

They’re the same guys that think that a dancer is into them when she’s just doing her job. The dancer does not even care about them in the slightest

[HelpfulWoman]

It's their job to be polite. Do NoT be the dumbass who thinks it's anything else.

[Asker]

I didn’t say I did. I just noticed they seem to be extra polite to me.

[Nikki1989]

They are trained to be friendly, that is part of their job.

[Asker]

True

[Asker]

Most guys need to do better. Social context is very important. A woman staring at a guy in a bar who is not a bartender maybe wants him to approach as you know. I had to double check. In all honesty if one of them wanted to talk to me then fine I would but I don’t assume omg they love me