Girl who was disrespecting me and I cut ties but still wants to talk and stares?

[Anonymous]

This girl I met used to be really nice and caring and I felt it was nice and caring in this time frame she also had a 'girlfriend' but after a couple months she started to become very disrespectful calling me insulting things such as pathetic, lame, short and not valuable. I told her 3 times to stop and she apologised but then continued being insulting saying that she's going to 'be famous' and that I'm going to wish I knew her, after the ultimatum I left. I ignored her completely and she told someone that she was upset that she might've hurt my feelings and that she couldn't sleep all night. Nothing excuses her calling me those names and being extremely rude but recently she's been all nervous and starring at me like a puppy expecting me to talk to her or saying sorry but when she said sorry the behaviour continued. Even though she flirts with dudes in front of me. I still see her once a week any advice keep. I have self-respect so talking to her is off the table as there are so many other nicer girls I talk to and hang out with. Maybe just ignore her?

[Summeroflove]

CUT HER OFF! There is no reason to start being mean to someone. Yeah ignore her. She definitely seems narcissistic and seems to have these delusions of grandeur.

Don’t talk to her unless you absolutely have to and keep boundaries. You can forgive her without allowing her back in. You move on from it. You don’t focus on hee. You choose to feel bad for her. She must be miserable and is probably projecting who SHE is onto YOU!

When she calls you names like pathetic. She’s probably talking about herself. That’s how narcissists many times act. Their behavior acting like they’re gonna be a big star or something. Usually they are very insecure on the inside.

She has to call you pathetic because she feels pathetic. She wants to tear others down instead of building people up to feel better about herself.

Sometimes people change. As well as you have to be cautious who you allow into your personal circle. Some people seem great at first. But don’t see their true colors until later on

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that girl sounds like nothing but drama. Good for you for having the self-respect to cut her off!

I'd just keep doing your thing and ignoring her when you see her. Don't give her any reaction - she's probably just trying to get a rise out of you.

If she tries talking to you, keep it real short. Just be like "we're done here" and walk away. Don't let her suck you back into her games.

She clearly doesn't respect you, so you don't owe her anything. Stay chatting with those nicer girls who treat you well instead!

Maybe she's finally realizing what she lost, but that's not your problem anymore. You showed her you ain't no joke. Now walk with your head high like the boss you are while she's staring. Bet she's regretting it!

Just keep living your best life bro. She ain't worth another thought. Better days ahead without that drama in your life.

[Asker]

True that. It's just that she used to be so nice and kind and did a 180 almost instantly maybe personal issues, she did tell about how her family life was stressful but that doesn't give her a reason to be rude. I did set tell her to stop many times but she still continued. It's strange. I'm sure the flirting with other guys is intentional but she sure does it a lot in front of me but yeah I'll find a kinder nicer lady.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, I get what you're saying. It is weird when someone does a total 180 like that from being nice to being super rude out of nowhere. And I'm sure her family stuff is stressful, but that's not an excuse to take it out on you, you know? You were cool to her and gave her plenty of chances to stop disrespecting you. The fact that she kept doing it after you asked multiple times shows she wasn't really sorry at all. And flirting in front of you after all that? Super lame of her. She's probably just trying to make you jealous now cause you gave her the cold shoulder. But don't even give her that satisfaction, dude. You deserve way better than some girl who plays games. It sucks when people change, but at least now you know her true colors. Like you said, focus on finding someone kinder who will treat you with respect from the jump. Don't waste another second thinking about this chick. You'll find someone better in no time, my man. Just stay doing you!

[laly520]

not worth talking to

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her about it

[Asker]

So you would talk to a girl who disrespected you 4 times. I don't think so. It's self-respect.

[Iron_Man]

It happens that’s why you have to organize it

[Asker]

A girl being disrespect just happens calling you names?

[Iron_Man]

People argue all the time and say things they don’t mean if you’re that sensitive then it’s going to be tough for you in life

[Asker]

There's a difference between an argument and a woman calling you rude names pathetic, lame etc. I'm not sensitive so you are telling me you would stay with a girl who disrespects you and calls you that stuff you've got to be kidding me.

[Iron_Man]

Yes, I do remain faithful and loyal because I know she doesn’t mean it

[Asker]

I never said anything about being disloyal. I'm saying why would you want an easier going woman who doesn't disrespect you rather than insult you?

[Iron_Man]

Because I love her and it is what it is she doesn’t mean it and she tells me that