Should I contact the girl who gave me her number and what to say (description below)?

[Nate897]

So there's this girl I like and I think she likes me as well (it seems she is giving me signs like trying to talk to me and create eye contact but I am not 100% sure). So today I saw her and as a joke asked if I could get her number thogh she probably knows I already have it and she just took a piece of paper and a pen out of nowhere and wrote it down for me. Now, we haven't been talking too much in real life, so I don't know if I should text/call her, and if so, what to say? I'm not really good at those kind of things

[_Maya_]

Well she did give it to you for a reason. It is tough to start out texting not really knowing much about her and you aren't going to know a lot since you mention you haven't talked to her in real life a lot. I would recommend calling and having some things in mind as conversation starters to get to know her better. A lot of that is going to depend on context of how you know her. Is it work? School? Friends? That would make a difference as to how I would suggest approaching a conversation but one thing is for sure and that's have some things in mind before you call. Even jot them down if you have to. If you get stuck move onto the next one. They should be general things that will help you get to know her.

[SueShe]

I always was under the impression that the purpose of giving the phone number to someone else was so that the recipient of the notice would call. I am not sure if I see that correctly but that is the impression I get.

Now, have you checked whether the number of already have is the same number as the one she recently gave you? She may have tricked you and given you a fake number.

The only thing that you can lose by calling her is to get rejected. On the other hand, the only thing you can lose by not calling her is to miss a possible opportunity. It is your choice.

If you don't know what to tell her, then why did you ask for her number in the first place since you knew you were going to have to talk to her? Just prepare a catalogue of questions that you would like her to answer and keep the conversation flowing. Showing that you are shy or have difficulties talking is a recipe for disaster. Don't show her that you are insecure.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah bro, I'd say go for it and text her! You gotta shoot your shot now that she gave you the digits.

As for what to say, keep it casual and lighthearted since you're just starting to chat. Something like "Hey it's [your name], hope you're having a good day" would work.

Then ask her how her classes are going or what she's been up to since you last talked. Listen to what she says and ask follow up questions to show you're interested.

Compliment her too if it feels natural. Like "loved your outfit today, you always look so put together" or whatever fits her style. A little flattery won't hurt!

Mostly just focus on getting to know each other better through text. Save asking her out officially for a bit down the line after you've bonded more.

Don't stress too much and have fun with it dude. She seemed into you, so keep the vibes positive. You got this man! Lemme know how it goes.

[Luckyclover12]

Call her, asker her if it’s a good time to chat- ask her how she is doing that day & ask her if she wants to go out to boba tea

[Anonymous]

Why do u like her? U don’t seem to know her well

[KrakenAttackin]

Shoot her a funny text.

[Anonymous]

You have her number, call her.