My fiancé has “bpd” and states that she’s suicidal and her wanting to sell/post her nudes are the only thing to make her feel better even if it hurts?

[Randomguy7723]

Me, again I stated at the beginning of our relationship I was not looking to be with someone that does sex work not that I hate on it just that it’s not something I want in my future with the person I love and we agreed on this in the beginning, now years down the road with a daughter in the mix now she pulls these cards saying how it’s 2024 and I need to get over it that times have changed and I’m an unsupportive boyfriend and how she sees all these other girls doing it and there boyfriends supporting them that she wishes I was like them, I don’t get it how I bow to this girls every needs and wants and the little stuff I ask for is just so much of a task, I just feel like I’d do anything to see her happy but overstep my boundaries and that’s all she wants from me anymore is to just be someone else it feels like, I guess I just need someone to talk to and have nobody so that’s why I always end up back to this site lmao

[petitedollbabee]

Ok… few questions. Why are you still with someone that you’re clearly not compatible with. What does bpd have to do with her desire to show herself on the internet. Is she in therapy for her bpd.

[Randomguy7723]

Unfortunately she won’t do therapy because it “never helps” and I’m with her because I truly do love her and our family but for some reason stuff changed on her end and now I’m trying to keep everything together hoping she comes back around

[petitedollbabee]

Is she actually diagnosed with borderline personality disorder?

[Randomguy7723]

Amongst many others yes and it grows highly confusing because it wasn’t always like this

[jahaims]

She is too mentally ill to have a functioning relationship

[Anonymous]

Yikes, and you want to marry her?