Is it hard to find girls that actually want to do stuff?

[red324]

Do most you just sit home all day and watch tv or something, or just hang out at the bar with your friends? I've been trying to get a girl to hang out with me on my boat for an afternoon, and they always say they'll go, then they back out. Now with that being said, I get that boats aren't every girls thing, but I see girls on all these other boats at the boat ramp. I just don't get it.

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I took all these girls out on like 3 dates before asking them out on the boat. Maybe 3 dates wasn't enough?

[Anonymous]

So because your negative experience with a woman, all of us are the same type of woman? So is it safe to assume since I was sexually assaulted by a man, all men just want to sexually assault me?

No, the answer is just that it’s your experience. She obviously doesn’t like you and most extroverted women like to be out and about doing things. The real take away is it’s not that she didn’t want to go out, she just doesn’t want to go out WITH YOU.

[red324]

Sounds about right. They'll go to dinner with me 8 days a week but that's about it.

[red324]

For the record, I went on dates with these girls. Its not like I asked them randomly

[Opinion Owner]

They just don’t like you, and if the dates included food, that’s probably why they went. Just cut them all off and start fresh.

[red324]

Jist make them pay for the dates instead of me

[red324]

Then you'll know they like you if you hear back

[red324]

I used to ask girls out on coffee dates and I usually could t get them to go until I started taking them to dinner. You're probably right, they just want the free meals.

[Nikki1989]

It is very hard for me. I have far more success with men.

[red324]

Well that's because most of them probably want sex out of you.

[Anonymous]

Get to know them first and gain their trust.