Why does a girl text you after midnight while at a party to say she is thinking about you but doesn't want to hook up and doesn't want me when sober?

[Anonymous]

[strateguy632]

i agree with strawberry. she drank her inhibition ended so she wrote to you but not interested.

[strawberrybaby3]

Because she’s drunk. People say and do stupid things while under the influence.

[Asker]

Drunk words are sober thoughts

[strawberrybaby3]

Not always. Clearly if she’s showing you she doesn’t want you while sober as you said, I think you have your answer.

[Asker]

So out of all the people she could've texted why me?

[strawberrybaby3]

How do you know she only texted you lol , maybe she thinks of you as a friend or you were the last person she spoke to

[Asker]

Since when you text "friends" after midnight that you are thinking about them? Especially if it's a guy and you know he likes you

[strawberrybaby3]

Because some women just like the idea of you liking them and love the attention

[Asker]

I'm glad you said that because it validated what I always knew. It's funny because I knew this girl was playing games with me but when I called her out on it she said I was "crazy". I was only crazy because I figured out her games

[strawberrybaby3]

Trust me , that’s what it is and I know this because I’ve done it years ago unfortunately and a lot of girls I know can be like that as well.

[Asker]

Why not just be honest with guys instead of using guys to make you feel better about yourself? That's not a good way to treat someone

[midnightcavern01]

Drunk texting

[Asker]

Drunk words are sober thoughts?