The answer really depends you see. If the girl LIKES you, then she wants you to try again but only in a cool suave way--not like a crazy-ass stalker. If the girl DOESN'T like you, she wants you to leave her the hell alone and not bother her again, because she'd rather be approached by a guy she's interested in having sex with at some point.
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Anything that isn't a "Yes" is a no. They are just trying to spare your feelings by humming and hawing.
Honestly, I didn’t think I would. I was far from interested in my fiancée. He tried for 7 months until I finally thought “if he’s trying this hard to be with me, then maybe I should see what he’s all about.” He knew what he wanted lol because a month later I ended up pregnant, both our fault, but it was the best thing to happen. We didn’t become serious until after our baby was born and now more than 2 years later we are on number 2 going to get married and in love.
Yes. The thing that would hold me back from giving a guy a chance is fear of getting hurt. If he showed me that he was really serious by asking me multiple times, I would totally say yes.
I still don't understand this "fear of getting hurt" mentality. Where does it come from? What are you afraid of? being abused, raped, cheated on, broken up with? Care to explain?
@Kholland65 I'm kind of surprised that you don't know what she means. How old are you? Many people have been hurt in past relationships because that person broke their heart. That's what she means someone may have rejected her or cheated on her, or even abused her. It varies from person to person. Everyone has been hurt in some way how they may have been hurt is different but all of us have one thing in common. We've all been hurt and it feels terrible. No one wants to go through that again.
I am physically insecure so I have this fear of being left for someone hotter than me. In addition, my first boyfriend cheated on me so I am afraid of that happening again.
Well then before you even pursue another relationship you need to resolve these issues. Its so bad when people get into a relationship and they have these major insecurities that they haven't gotten over yet. Their SO has to suffer because of it and its not really fair. Work on improving your self first. Work out and get into shape. As far as your ex cheating on you and dealing with that its just something you're going to have to take a risk on if you ever want to date again.
Also you look super pretty in your pic I don't see why you'd be so insecure. Anyway just workout if you're not happy with your weight. I just started back going to the gym and even though its been a couple of days I feel great and feel proud of myself for starting something I know will better benefit me in the future.
a stalker and a creeper is somebody who follows a girl around and that pretty much watches her without saying exactly what they mean or trying to have sexual favors or making her uncomfortable with strange comments.
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The answer really depends you see. If the girl LIKES you, then she wants you to try again but only in a cool suave way--not like a crazy-ass stalker. If the girl DOESN'T like you, she wants you to leave her the hell alone and not bother her again, because she'd rather be approached by a guy she's interested in having sex with at some point.
Anything that isn't a "Yes" is a no. They are just trying to spare your feelings by humming and hawing.
of what if she is playing hard to get?
Those girls aren't worth it.
Just leave her , she isn't.
No, trust me it only makes you look like a creep/stalker. I would say just walk away.
Honestly, I didn’t think I would. I was far from interested in my fiancée. He tried for 7 months until I finally thought “if he’s trying this hard to be with me, then maybe I should see what he’s all about.” He knew what he wanted lol because a month later I ended up pregnant, both our fault, but it was the best thing to happen. We didn’t become serious until after our baby was born and now more than 2 years later we are on number 2 going to get married and in love.
Yes. The thing that would hold me back from giving a guy a chance is fear of getting hurt. If he showed me that he was really serious by asking me multiple times, I would totally say yes.
I still don't understand this "fear of getting hurt" mentality. Where does it come from? What are you afraid of? being abused, raped, cheated on, broken up with? Care to explain?
@Kholland65 I'm kind of surprised that you don't know what she means. How old are you? Many people have been hurt in past relationships because that person broke their heart. That's what she means someone may have rejected her or cheated on her, or even abused her. It varies from person to person. Everyone has been hurt in some way how they may have been hurt is different but all of us have one thing in common. We've all been hurt and it feels terrible. No one wants to go through that again.
I am physically insecure so I have this fear of being left for someone hotter than me. In addition, my first boyfriend cheated on me so I am afraid of that happening again.
Well then before you even pursue another relationship you need to resolve these issues. Its so bad when people get into a relationship and they have these major insecurities that they haven't gotten over yet. Their SO has to suffer because of it and its not really fair. Work on improving your self first. Work out and get into shape. As far as your ex cheating on you and dealing with that its just something you're going to have to take a risk on if you ever want to date again.
Also you look super pretty in your pic I don't see why you'd be so insecure. Anyway just workout if you're not happy with your weight. I just started back going to the gym and even though its been a couple of days I feel great and feel proud of myself for starting something I know will better benefit me in the future.
One of the reasons why I am NOT in relationship right now...
And, thank you for the compliment.
It's a complete turn off if a guy persecutes me... there's no excuse. An interesting guy isn't after me all day and less if I turned him down.
No, just because a guy is persistent doesn't mean that he's going to "wear me down" into accepting his attention. Some guys are just creepy.
If I avoid you purposely then no, but if I just ignore you then maybe.
nope, generally once a gir's decision is made about a guy, whether she is attracted to him or not, it is likely to stay that way
You went from an honest question asker to a borderline stalker type.
dude if you´re not attracte at all, the other person can try all they want xD it´s not gonna happen.
Depends how much I like him back, and how persistent he is.
lol! No, that would only encourage stalkers and creeps, wouldn't it?
not necessarily
a stalker and a creeper is somebody who follows a girl around and that pretty much watches her without saying exactly what they mean or trying to have sexual favors or making her uncomfortable with strange comments.
3 girls so far have said no, but clearly I don't know what I'm talking about...
Walk away , walk away :)