Girls and sweet guys?

[Anonymous]

I tend to do things for this girl I like and people tell me I'm really sweet. I'm just wondering if girls like sweet guys or not, if they don't what do they like. Last night at work I told her I liked her laugh then she stopped laughing and kinda smiled, then I said oh so your not gonna laugh now and she said no then I said that's OK cause I think you're even cuter when your quite and then she laughed again. I tend to do what I can to make her comfortable around me, is this a good thing?

[billy_young]

People will always be divided on this issue... both guys and girls. Some guys live by the motto "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" and it works for them. Others think that the way to a woman's heart is to be a gentleman and that works for them. And that's because some girls like nice, kind, sweet guys, others like rough & ready, manly, tough guys. The fact is, every girl is different.

The best bet is to just do what comes naturally to you and be yourself. That way you'll get a girl who likes you for who you are and you will both be able to be yourselves and be happy together for the rest of your lives.

So basically, I think everyone is different. However, I'm going to massively stereotype now because I think it will help with your question. I think if you're really nice and sweet, and a girl likes really nice sweet guys, you'll take a while but eventually get together and have a nice long-term relationship. If you act like a 'bad boy' and really tough and whatever, then you will attract a girl more quickly, but your relationship will be less romantic. You'll be more in control of the relationship, and it will probably be more about sex too. But for me, a relationship is about being equal and being romantic and nice, not about being in control and keeping her wanting you.

Hope this helps :)

[BluEyeDbRi]

couldn't agree more. However I feel like the "women" who like bad guys are not ready for relationships.

[billy_young]

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[bassman]

NO! Doing what you're doing is weak! Women what a man...not a servant that compliments them at every turn. Compliments and excessive flirting does not raise womens interest level. Sure...everyone, even women like compliments from time to time, but you are trying too hard and need to do a 180 in how you deal with women.

[yauch]

yeah that's really sweet actually.

if she likes this you're in cos it's fairly full on thing to say actually. but very sweet.

[bittersweet17]

haha awww :P good one

It's always nice when a guy tries to make a girl feel comfortable. :)

[Tweetumzz143]

ofcourse.. I think all girl love sweet guys.. my opinion

[Tweetumzz143]

*girlS

[Lj236]

yeah id say so