Do ugly people know that they are ugly?

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I wonder if ugly people know they are ugly? A few of us were hanging out today, and one of my friends invited one of her girlfriends to hang out because she is new. Well, she was all dressed up in nice clothes, nice hair, and pretty jewellery but all I could do was stare at her ugly face. It was like a car wreck, I couldn't look away. I wondered: "Why the hell is she all dressed up nicely if she is so ugly?" and it made me wonder if ugly people even know they are ugly. She must have thought she was hot if she dressed nicely. Why try and look good if it doesn't help? And at a coffee shop? I was just wearing shirts and a t-shirt like a normal person, and so was everyone else.

Ada-Fae · Accepted Answer

Obviously the people you find unattractive know it.

Most people that I know, think they are ugly, regardless of how gorgeous they actually are.

And it's nasty people like you who help them feel like that.

Honestly, if she was dressed in a paper bag, would you have been happy? No, you would've started complaining about how 'ugly' people don't know how to dress themselves, and that they don't put any effort into their appearance.

People cannot (well, technically you can, though it's expensive and generally not worth it) choose how they look, specifically their face. Bodies can be shaped, to an extent. Skin can be kept clean and clear, again, to an extent. And hair can be well groomed. Why the hell would you honestly think that you could suggest that other people are not allowed to take care of themselves, because you don't deem them attractive enough to do so? What's next, do you want to live under bridges, threatening to eat goats as they cross? Though, I don't think you'd be too happy if they took that job from you.

LookAgain · Accepted Answer

I mean people are always talked about. ITs like if someone have a big head people tell them they have a big head and plus they can see it themselves.  And if someone is fat they know they are fat because they see it and of cousre the same thing people tell them. So same as being ugly I think they know and again people are mean and just like to tlk about people so I'm sure she;s been told once or twice how she looks. But just because you look a certain way don't mean you can't dress it up. If she wants to wear something pretty then let her do it . I mean no one comments on how you dress right. So just let her do her.

Snow123 · Accepted Answer

You know, a part of me really wants to believe that you're a troll, since what you said is just about the epitome of ignorance and superficiality.

But then I read the question over again and I come to the conclusion that this is how you actually are, and this question is indeed asked sincerely.

And as such, I'd just like to say it's a shame that a mirror can only reflect the outside a person, because your internal self is just about the ugliest thing I've come across in a really long time. Beauty is skin deep, but ugliness goes to the bone.

palek · Accepted Answer

Nah, when God made ungly people he gave em an extra gene known in medical circles as the "I-Don't-Even-Know-I'm-Ugly" gene. But after He thought about it He figgered they have a right to know, so He created people like you to remind em.

zagor · Accepted Answer

Yeah, she should have put on a black dress, with a pointy black hat and a broom, and then acted just like you, to make the act complete.

Anonymous · Answer

So people who are not physically as blessed as others should wear sloppy clothes? They shouldn't try to feel good about themselves by being stylish or doing nice things with their hair? They're just supposed to live life, accepting ugliness and low self esteem?

Her dressing nicely does not automatically mean she thinks she's hot.

For all you know, she could be a fashion and design major. Style and fashion may be her creative outlet. Maybe she works at Forever 21 and it's apart of her job to dress trendy and look cute. Honestly, you sound like a bitch and as ugly as you are on the inside; no guy will hang around for too long without getting an 'inner beauty fix' from some other girl who's more beautiful where you're not *the heart*.

kereru · Answer

so only beautiful people, no matter how horrible, cruel, rotten and ugly they are on the inside, have any right to feel good about themselves?

The way you describe this girl she sounds like someone with self respect and dignity who is doing the best with what she has and not letting the shallow opinions of others hold her back or stop her from living a happy life.

...who the f*** are you to bring her down bitch?

heyyy · Answer

Yes ,ugly people know they are ugly, too bad stupid people have no clue about how stupid they are. Just sayin'.

Jaybabe77 · Answer

So you're looking at the girl wondering if she knows how ugly she is? If you're going to judge someone on their appearance have enough guts to not be an anon so you can see what it's like to be judged. I'm not even going to answer your asinine question

PoeticNinja · Answer

Thing is, we are very aware that we're unattractive to other people. Hence, why we have to put more effort into our appearances.

It will at least bump up our range of attractiveness a bit.

Being ugly and dressing like a bum will not help my case or anyone else's. Nothing is wrong with dressing up. Now, is there? Hmmm, you can't hate on ugly people because they're ugly. That's not a legitimate reason.

lv4lv · Answer

I wonder if people who are ugly on the inside know how ugly they are...

Anonymous · Answer

I wonder if people with internal ugliness notice how ugly they are

Anonymous · Answer

i wonder that a lot because I see fatties who are all dressed up and I think...you're still fat and very unattractive.

Anyway, I know I'm not very attractive, because I've been told that a lot in my life and I've never had a girlfriend and I'm still a virgin at 20.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't sound like you are aware of it, so I guess not.

RoxyKAy · Answer

Yes most people do know what level of attractiveness they fall into, but if you'd look ugly without being dressed up you might  as well have fun with your clothes, & some people like to express themselves through their style

courtney06 · Answer

It's better to dress decent than to dress like a bum despite physical features. People feel better about themselves when they dress nice and other people are more likely to respect them.

TheUglyOne · Answer

Not in the beginning, we get told throughout our lives we are ugly, that's how we know.

caligirl3 · Answer

maybe she did it cause she wanted to and maybe she likes dressing up, and no matter how ugly she was there was at least one in that coffee shop that was a lot more ugly.

Anonymous · Answer

dressing nicely is to make yourself look better. mybe she doesn't feel pretty and so if she makes herself up and dresses nice it makes her feel better. but you are so mean, really. looks fade, if you are ugly on the inside you will die alone.

Anonymous · Answer

everyone should dress nicely if it makes them feel good. she probably has more swag than u. are you really mad because she wears better clothes than u?

shyguy89 · Answer

you want some attention don't you sweetie-_-

Anonymous · Answer

I'm pretty sure that those of below average attractiveness are very aware of their appearance...

Moloch · Answer

I'm pretty sure people know where they fall on the attractiveness scale.

Love2Ball · Answer

Well I guess you gotta make up for it with clothes..? haha get it? make up... ?Ugh nvm ):

Anonymous · Answer

E mirror is opposite so maybe notth..so when was the last time you took a look

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