I'm more the reserved and quiet type. I can be attentive and caring. I am polite and friendly but am mostly serious. But I do really appreciate witty comments and jokes. And once I am very comfortable with someone I can be quite funny myself.
Also I don't strive for attention and flirt heavily. And even when I do I am more likely to tease playfully than play with my hair, bat my eyes and laugh stupidly.
Overall I find all those girlie stereotype rather ridiculous. I can't picture myself be like that. Yet it seems to be what most find attractive. So does me being more serious, and sort of grounded makes me unattractive?
Obviously I have nothing against people who are positive, light-hearted, and understanding of others. I simply meant that I don't strive for attention as some other girls do when it comes to guys and I don't put on an act once one is around. I don't naturally act all cute and giggle around. As I said, I don't bat my eyes, play with my hair, etc..
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