Just one thing on my mind: WHY is a 'gentleman' usually portrayed as a rack that features a suit and a noose [necktie] ? One can be a gentleman without suffering this masquerade.
This is a pretty good take. It's also important to note that you need to want to form a connection with a girl, not just be nice to her to get her into bed or make her your girlfriend. That's the hard part.
I get the feel that many people nowadays just want to do things quickly and in a rush to get an easy reward, but that's not how healthy and solid relationships work at all
I have been going to the lake or just outside anytime I can. You're not alone we are all going crazy inside But remember I'm rooting and praying for you. This to shell pass my friend
You are right, thank you for your kindness and encouragements. I too root and pray for you, this bad moment will pass for all us and we'll be able to go on with our lives stronger and better
I hate when people treat me differently based on my gender, man or woman. Kinda dumb for me to be on this website then, but it's sometimes fun voicing opinions. But respect is cool and appreciated.
thanks for the insite, lexi... we appreciate you... or at least i appreciate you, this article was fire... you laid out some problems... examples, and solutions... not just a rant about how we're all retards...
Bwhahaha the gentleman hardly ever wins the girl. why there's so many deadbeat dads who refuse to take care of their kids. If the mom chose a gentleman their babies would have fathers.
Best way to win a girl is be yourself. If you can't be yourself with the girl you're trying to win, she probably isn't the girl you should be trying to win in the first place.
Well, these days to be gentle/chivalrous in order to get a woman = be friendzoned. So yeah, you can get any woman you want but no in the way you would like
That said, in order to successfully get a woman being chivalrous, a guy must be a gentle womanizer (aka a nice bad boy), then yes, you can get any girl you want [...]
I get all your points here but what is the role of girl here don't take this an offensive question just enlighten me I am not against being the gentle men 😊though
I agree but she did say not to smother and baby her which is a trap I see guys fall for a lot and I don’t blame them. It’s difficult to not put someone you love on a pedestal.
@Snakeyes7 I'd just tell them to be themselves and let their mind do the talking, it's working for me in my relationship and it worked for me to find her
Yeah that’s what I should have done as well. I was scared to death of even inconveniencing my ex. Unfortunately I haven’t had another girlfriend since then to try that strategy out yet.
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I concur with your myTake. This is what I have been doing for years and it doesn't get every woman but I do fairly well. No chance I'll ever go MGTOW!
I appreciate you
"A Gentleman Always Wins The Girl"
This is not true.
And I think we all know that it's not.
Just one thing on my mind:
WHY is a 'gentleman' usually portrayed as a rack that features a suit and a noose [necktie] ?
One can be a gentleman without suffering this masquerade.
I just treat women like I do men.. as a human. No special treatment required.
Agree to disagree just be kind🙂 most important is be kind
Agreed.
Cool🙂
This is a pretty good take. It's also important to note that you need to want to form a connection with a girl, not just be nice to her to get her into bed or make her your girlfriend. That's the hard part.
Excellent myTake, I agree with all your points.
It's a shame that today' society tends to put aside and ridicule good manners and education.
I know something as simple as manners these guys could be dating
I get the feel that many people nowadays just want to do things quickly and in a rush to get an easy reward, but that's not how healthy and solid relationships work at all
I know that and you know that. But I don't think they are smart enough to understand that
That's true
How's the weather? It's been raining a week here
Here is quite good if a bit cloudy, but I don't think it matters much apart from drying the laundry since I'm confined at home
I have been going to the lake or just outside anytime I can. You're not alone we are all going crazy inside But remember I'm rooting and praying for you. This to shell pass my friend
You are right, thank you for your kindness and encouragements.
I too root and pray for you, this bad moment will pass for all us and we'll be able to go on with our lives stronger and better
Hugs🤗
Thanks, hugs to you too!
In Disney movies maybe that's true. Not in real life. :(
Look older there are some trust me I demand it
Exactly. There are tons of incels that behave exactly the way she is describing lol.
@FriedPickles1218 Yup.
@FriedPickles1218 yes thankyou! This is some simp and incel shit
I have to say that for me a gentleman never wins the girl, because a girl isn't some kind of prize you win in a tournament
I hate when people treat me differently based on my gender, man or woman. Kinda dumb for me to be on this website then, but it's sometimes fun voicing opinions. But respect is cool and appreciated.
I learned these traits in Church and from Men in my family
I'm always a gentleman, towards everyone, in and out of a relationship..
However, I'm seeing more and more that the majority of women have forgotten how to be a lady.
How to be a lady in your opinion?
I want to court and knowing I Want to be the gentle man, no matter how much I'm pushed aside, sometimes may work but Always Will Be What's Right
thanks for the insite, lexi... we appreciate you... or at least i appreciate you, this article was fire... you laid out some problems... examples, and solutions... not just a rant about how we're all retards...
Ya , basically this though there are definitely men who will make a show of all this but have some pretty dark motives narcissists are an example.
Bwhahaha the gentleman hardly ever wins the girl. why there's so many deadbeat dads who refuse to take care of their kids. If the mom chose a gentleman their babies would have fathers.
Best way to win a girl is be yourself. If you can't be yourself with the girl you're trying to win, she probably isn't the girl you should be trying to win in the first place.
Three Doors Down, 2008
Well, these days to be gentle/chivalrous in order to get a woman = be friendzoned. So yeah, you can get any woman you want but no in the way you would like
That said, in order to successfully get a woman being chivalrous, a guy must be a gentle womanizer (aka a nice bad boy), then yes, you can get any girl you want [...]
I get all your points here but what is the role of girl here don't take this an offensive question just enlighten me I am not against being the gentle men 😊though
Can I get an answer for this I wanna really know this if anybody can answer this as well I don't have a problem please enlighten
Women Must Work On Themselves ↗
Well I found the answer heređź‘Źđź‘Ź
Here's my advice to men, never take dating advice from a woman
I agree but she did say not to smother and baby her which is a trap I see guys fall for a lot and I don’t blame them. It’s difficult to not put someone you love on a pedestal.
@Snakeyes7 I'd just tell them to be themselves and let their mind do the talking, it's working for me in my relationship and it worked for me to find her
Yeah that’s what I should have done as well. I was scared to death of even inconveniencing my ex. Unfortunately I haven’t had another girlfriend since then to try that strategy out yet.
"A gentleman always wins the girl" - nope! Not true at all lol. Then you're "too nice" (for some).