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8 reasons why I'm not a Feminist! (From a Christian perspective) ↗
It's so refreshing to read another person saying this. Even more so that it's not another guy saying it.
I'm that girl
That you are @WowwGirl 😊
Thanking you
No, it's all toxic. I really don't care how the term came to be, or why. What matters is what it means NOW, and it refers to masculine behaviour that is destructive (ex. violent crime, war and competition generally) and which we'd be better off without.
A wise man once said: "Toxic masculinity was invented by women nobody wants to fuck, to describe the men women do want to fuck" - Andrew Tate
https://www.youtube.com/embed/PlpFMTx4FHsBasically. I mean the very premise of masculinity being toxic should be an indicator that the person using it (feminists) are sexist. Only sexist would suggest that masculinity which created civilization, brought order to the world, protected our species and allowed it to survive would be some how "toxic". Something necessary to survival by its nature is not toxic, its necessary.
This is a great take, but almost everybody is wrong about the men’s movement. The men’s movement is as much to blame for the emasculation of men as feminism is. All these weak fucks you see talking about how unfair it is to expect a man to be strong, that was the MRA argument.
Why don't we talk about toxic feminism. Its far worse than anything masculine >.> in a way women are their own worst enemy. Heck what is 58% of the US is what SINGLE. Fantastic jobs feminism you really achieved your goals XD. Make men wanna be single rather than fathers muchless husbands.
Toxic masculinity refers to the type of guy that thinks he's better than girls and should "put them in their place". The type of guy that thinks they should decide whether women get abortions or not. Were talking about the guys that treat our gays, and girly men like trash. The men who think they can catcall and touch women on the streets. You can still be masculine, and not have toxic masculinity.
I actually wrote on this as well Men's Emotions And Toxic Masculinity
It's purely a shaming tactic. And a tool to manipulate and control men. One of the things I find interesting is that feminism teaches that gender is a spectrum, that it's a social construct, until it comes to antisocial behavior then men are inherently evil and must be brought to heel.
Awesome I'll read it sorry I didn't know
No big deal. Thanks for your writing. The more the merrier
I'd forget my ass if not attached to my body
Lol, Im certain that there are fans who would glady keep. an eye on it for you.
Pretty good piece of writing. I didn't really know what feminists were talking about until I read this because I usually don't pay much attention to their gobbledygook. I know they mean me harm so they can go. . . . well I'll be a gentleman and not say it. If being masculine is toxic then I'm toxic. I'm not gonna change at my age. I doubt I'd change even if I were 20 years younger. Feminine men are annoying to me anyway.
I would also like to add;
Feminism is NOT for everyone!
That saying (always written in pink), "feminism is for everyone," seems to be used along with, "toxic masculinity," everywhere I go.
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True. Not everyone can be a gender fascist
I would add that I believe the broader reason for this is to ultimately destroy men and as you stated make them girls or act like girls as much as possible. I would also add these feminist cunts don’t intimidate me, but rather I intimidate them. I’m probably just the kind of guy these worthless cunts had in mind when they coined that term.
Hey I like you but easy on the c word please. Respectfully speaking
I see that as a female version of the N word and I'm not comfortable with either. If you are wondering why I ask.
Toxic masculinity refers to the type of guy that thinks he's better than girls and should "put them in their place". The type of guy that thinks they should decide whether women get abortions or not. Were talking about the guys that treat our gays, and girly men like trash. You can still be masculine, and not have toxic masculinity. I won't want a guy who dresses in drag all the time and has his nails and makeup done, but good for him if he does. On the other hand, I find a man who loves cooking baking and has a nack for kids really hot.
I am not a girl I offend and k! ll when neccecary
But I liked your take good job
It is always reassuring to see that at least some women understand men who want to be men!
I can see what you're trying to get at. However, I totally disagree. Toxic masculinity exists. So does healthy masculinity. Toxic femininity exists. So does healthy femininity.
I'm glad someone knows the truth. Men aren't under some kind of act where we pretend to be super maxuline... We just act how we want and do what we do naturally... it's. jus men being men because we have testosterone... And some girls say we're toxic masculine cos of that, I'm sorry but that's what God intended.. he wanted us to be masculine... If you want a world where all guys are girly... Just become a lesbian instead
Like how can you be mad at a male being maxuline. That'd like me being mad that girls are girly.. well they're not gonna be manly are they? Like what do you expect
I'm afraid it's a lot more complicated than that. I like softer, gentler guys but I am still attracted to men :/
@Sarahnah so basically a boy who went to ballet school. Lmao. Whatever floats your boat I guess
@Sarahnah and no that's literally what it is... I jus be myself and do what I was born to do naturally... And that jus turns out to be masculine... It's not like I was brainwashed by the media to develope my sense of gender... I'm not a sheep, if there's anyone who isn't a sheep it's. me, I'm an individual, and copying the masses is something I'm totally against, so I would not act "masculine" cos that's what the media encourages... Fuck the media... I just act how I do because I want to act that way, so it must just be the nature of a male to be masculine... Sure there are less masculine men... But I'm pretty sure no one acts tough or pretends to be more masculine than they actually are jus to fit in
People jus act how they wanr
That's not what we want at all. Toxic masculinity refers to the type of guy that thinks he's better than girls and should "put them in their place". The type of guy that thinks they should decide whether women get abortions or not. Were talking about the guys that treat our gays, and girly men like trash. You can still be masculine, and not have toxic masculinity. p. s you can't control if you are into girls or not.
Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Toxic PERSONALITY is the problem.
this.
Funny how the phrase “toxic masculinity” gets branded, circulated, promoted and “academized” but you rarely if ever hear the phrase “toxic femininity”.
If you want to point out some of the dark deeper bullshit with male ego, fine. But don’t throw stones if you live in a glass house. Women treat each other like shit and many are very capable of using their sexuality to harm men.
I consider toxic masculinity to be when a man is taught to supress his emotions and to be "tough" even when it's destroying him. But I never knew where the term originally came from. Turns out it's just a case of people misusing words again.
The problem with that argument is that men have practiced stoicism since the 3rd century. Most all of the greatest men in history have been stoics and such a state of mind is what evolutionary biology dictates.
The men have to be strong because as hunter gatherers our efforts would be to protecting and providing for the family at all costs. It is little wonder the men who accomplished great things and did well for themselves didn't have the luxury of expressing emotions that would cripple their ability to do things.
This is why such behaviour has been naturally selected for in men for thousands of years. It is only now that subversive cultural forces are trying to dismantle that.
Women may think they want an emotionally in touch man, but their first choice is for very masculine men. A natural instinct they'd rather deny for the sake of optics. Women being far more emotionally fragile, need men to be their 'rock' to find solace in when they feel like their world is collapsing.
It wouldn't work if both were prone to emotional breakdowns because like it or not men and women have roles they need each other to fill in relationships and that's how its always been.
That's not exactly how I meant it. A man can be strong by not letting his emotions control him, but some just push it down and keep it in, only for those emotions to come bubbling up again later in a chaotic mess, that's when it becomes toxic.
So masculinity is real. And toxicity is real. But toxic masculinity isn’t?
If you're a crazy feminist I'm sure to you it's real
"Toxic masculinity" is a term that, as used today, is intended to at the very least imply, if not assert, that ALL masculine traits are toxic, and that masculinity in general is a bad, awful thing that is harmful, shameful, and must immediately be changed.
Anyone can be toxic not just guys
@MrOracle thank you
@MrOracle No it doesn't. This is the same BS as the “all lives matter” argument.
Human being exist.
Cows exist.
So by your logic ManCows exist.
See the flaw in your logic?
@MudRucker that’s not the logic. Toxicity exists in humans. Masculinity exists in some humans. Get the picture?
@MudRucker way to strawman. your pea-brain cannot understand this at all. so stop embarrassing yourself
Women can be toxic, gays can be toxic, parents can be toxic. But masculinity apparently has more popular talking points…
@OddBeMe Exactly!!!
@MudRucker weird he usually just picks on women. Ohhhh he's riding another man's jock.. well that makes sense then😃
He reminds me of me on my period I'm almost that bitchy
@MudRucker For good reason, men hurt women by a lot higher margin buddy.
I love online trolls that remind me of my wife’s period.
You're married to a trans female.
Tranny females don't have periods.
@OddBeMe period line is mine. Will talk about it later in the alley when my five husband's and your trans wife are there to referee
Also the jock comment wasn't for you so fuck off darling ❤️
Seen one period you seen them all.
This was how the zodiac felt
Lv you long time
Anything can be toxic, doesn’t have to be masculine or anything else, just another made up phrase
Thank you