I'm going a different direction with this. Ever buy a new car only to find out after you buy it that's their are several on the road just like it. Those cats were on the road before you bought it, you just didn't pay attention to them until you purchased the car. Same thing here. I think you are only paying attention to the bad boys. Plenty of guys are on pins and needs the first date because of they make a mistake they will never hear the end of it.
Speaking for myself only, I have made more stupid mistakes in my dating relationships, friends with benefits relationships etc than the girls/women involved.
I'm gonna be real with you; my experience has been the exact opposite. Women are unbelievably unforgiving. On the plus side, you get to see the person's character in a situation like that.
Iβve never received any form of an apology from a woman
we donβt get away with anything women wait for us to mess up and will hold it against by bringing it up anytime they are in the wrong or losing an argument
I never said it's not equal. I said it seems to me that women are more forgiving and give second chances if the mistake wasn't critical, but me run away as soon as a woman makes the slightest mistake
Easy! If you're a woman and you make a mistake, you didn't make it but your man did! If you're a man and make a mistake, you made a mistake and will never hear the end of it! Also known as marriage!🤪
Not from my experience. I kind of agree on the women part, a lot of them can't admit to their own mistakes, but a lot of us can and regularly do. Men, however, I've barely seen a few who can. And those few could predominantly admit then outside the relationship/dating context. In a relationship, those same men can barely if ever admit to them
That's because you're a woman and probably you are straight so that's all you see. Because if you've never dated a woman, then you wouldn't see things in our perspective.
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Your personal experience is the complete opposite of what is typical in the real world.
Not nearly as many mistakes as the majority of women have made. A small percentage of men make lots of mistakes and a large percentage of men make very few mistakes, where as the majority of women make many mistakes and a small percentage of women make only a few mistakes.
Omg hahahha. That's exactly what's wrong here, what I was talking about. (Or part of it). I guess men like you are exactly the ones who can never admit to their own mistake, but run at the first sight of a woman's. You need to get your head out of your bum. I've never met a man who didn't make at least the same amount of mistakes as women. And I'm talking all generations, not only my relationships.
That said, your username doesn't suit you at all. A high value man (person, goes for women too) looks at himself first and is always ready to admit to his own mistakes. And always works on himself because he knows we all make mistakes regularly. And then he doesn't repeat his mistakes again. Very few people do this in general, be it men or women.
I don't make mistakes regularly. I have rarely made any mistakes in life. Less than anyone I've known. I do know of many women though that make lots of repeated mistakes and don't learn from their actions. They often make that forever negatively affect their lives too.
It makes sense though that a woman past 30 that doesn't have much value as a potential partner to any good quality man would have a problem with my screen name.
Hahah get off your high horse. And as a business owner and somebody who keeps learning and growing, and who's realistic (unlike some here), I have a lot of value, thanks π
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I'm going a different direction with this. Ever buy a new car only to find out after you buy it that's their are several on the road just like it. Those cats were on the road before you bought it, you just didn't pay attention to them until you purchased the car. Same thing here. I think you are only paying attention to the bad boys. Plenty of guys are on pins and needs the first date because of they make a mistake they will never hear the end of it.
No one should be expected to be perfect. Forgiveness is being mature.
Exactly
Speaking for myself only, I have made more stupid mistakes in my dating relationships, friends with benefits relationships etc than the girls/women involved.
From my experience this is personality dependent. Some people you can walk all over, others will ghost you at the slightest inconvenience.
My wife loses it when I make a mistake, gets all insecure and it can be fighting for hours.
Rather than simply fixing the issue and moving on, its a real debilitating.
Sorry you have to deal with that. Have you suggested therapy to her? Or couples counseling
I'm gonna be real with you; my experience has been the exact opposite. Women are unbelievably unforgiving. On the plus side, you get to see the person's character in a situation like that.
I think it is not gender related, insted depends on person.
Guys have become too girly, they act like girls talk like girls and are confused why they can't get girls.
Men believe they can't make mistakes. And if they do they need a lot of time to realize they made one.
What are you calling a 'not severe' mistake?
Iβve never received any form of an apology from a woman
we donβt get away with anything women wait for us to mess up and will hold it against by bringing it up anytime they are in the wrong or losing an argument
women never apologize
We do. I apologized numerous times
The only thing women hate more than apologizing is being wrong
Men like that who sweat themselves find themselves by themselves
I think itβs equally both men and women they do a lot of dumb moves in life
I never said it's not equal. I said it seems to me that women are more forgiving and give second chances if the mistake wasn't critical, but me run away as soon as a woman makes the slightest mistake
Easy! If you're a woman and you make a mistake, you didn't make it but your man did! If you're a man and make a mistake, you made a mistake and will never hear the end of it! Also known as marriage!🤪
This MyTake is proof of the genetic difference between men and women.
We guys make mistakes, we're human. We usually admit them and learn from them.
Women, on the other hand, rarely admit their mistakes. They are never wrong.
Not from my experience. I kind of agree on the women part, a lot of them can't admit to their own mistakes, but a lot of us can and regularly do. Men, however, I've barely seen a few who can. And those few could predominantly admit then outside the relationship/dating context. In a relationship, those same men can barely if ever admit to them
That's because you're a woman and probably you are straight so that's all you see. Because if you've never dated a woman, then you wouldn't see things in our perspective.
Your personal experience is the complete opposite of what is typical in the real world.
Women often come with a past of many "mistakes" that the man has to deal with from the start.
And guys never made mistakes in the past? π€¦π½ββοΈ
Not nearly as many mistakes as the majority of women have made.
A small percentage of men make lots of mistakes and a large percentage of men make very few mistakes, where as the majority of women make many mistakes and a small percentage of women make only a few mistakes.
Omg hahahha. That's exactly what's wrong here, what I was talking about. (Or part of it). I guess men like you are exactly the ones who can never admit to their own mistake, but run at the first sight of a woman's. You need to get your head out of your bum. I've never met a man who didn't make at least the same amount of mistakes as women. And I'm talking all generations, not only my relationships.
That said, your username doesn't suit you at all. A high value man (person, goes for women too) looks at himself first and is always ready to admit to his own mistakes. And always works on himself because he knows we all make mistakes regularly. And then he doesn't repeat his mistakes again. Very few people do this in general, be it men or women.
I don't make mistakes regularly. I have rarely made any mistakes in life. Less than anyone I've known. I do know of many women though that make lots of repeated mistakes and don't learn from their actions. They often make that forever negatively affect their lives too.
It makes sense though that a woman past 30 that doesn't have much value as a potential partner to any good quality man would have a problem with my screen name.
Hahah get off your high horse. And as a business owner and somebody who keeps learning and growing, and who's realistic (unlike some here), I have a lot of value, thanks π
No one is perfect. Walking in mercy and forgiveness with one another is what matters.
Another gag post that asserts the total opposite of what is true. Men are treated way more harshly for their mistakes, and women know it too.