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If I am so beautiful, than Why don't guys approach me? (Page 2)
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lose weight, be more smiley, like smile all the freaking time if possible, make eye contact while smiling, have a femenine inviting voice, and keep with conversations when talking to a guy
Loose weight? I'm a size one...
then omit that
No, dont change. No boy is ever worth changing for. Sometimes you have to approach them first.
How am I suppose to approach them if they're scared to speak to me?
You go up and say hello. Getting them to talk about themselves helps them feel more comforatble
The fact that I'm "elegant" and I come off as a hmmm how can I say it, "high and mighty"?
You simply outstanding woman, men will never approach you, because they knew, they will not suitable for you, or you are out of their league. This is normal for most men. Even myself, not trying to approach beautiful woman, but starting to date more reasonable woman / above average woman (but not beautiful or elegant) as you and other woman are. So it's up to you to counter people opinion.
Guys probably have doubts about your relationship status since you're beautiful. Get to know guys on personal level and I they'll approach you in time when the realize you're single.
yeah could be intimidating... some guys like girls with high confidence. Some guys just can't handle girls like that. but maybe try finding an equilibrium of confidence and humbleness?
Trust me it is not related with being super beautiful or sth. Do you really want to be in relationship?
Of course I do, I really want to settle down and be in courtship with a guy and hopefully marry him but it seems like nothing is working...
So be yourself. Sounds cheesy as hell but it is true. Do not try to find a relationship or whatever. Let it comes to you. Meantime enjoy the single life, have fun girl.
Thanks so much. I think because I'm stressing over it it's hard for me to find a guy. I guess all I have to do is just relax and have a great time.
Exactly. Nothing worse than a bad relationship. I bet you prefer being single rather than that.
True. Again, thank you (:
Always check for body odor. It can be a real turn off.
Lol I don't have BO
Well let me ask you this, do you get out much? Do you put yourself in situations where you can possibly be approached by guys? Getting yourself out there and socializing is huuuuuuge when it comes to finding a relationship.
Lol well, I'm some what of an introvert and introverts have a hard time socializing of course but I do go out with my friends but that's about it.
hmmmm so what do you think you should do?
I don't know because I do go out. I should smile more and make eye contact. And at least be up close to them to the point where they can run up to me and speak to me? Lol
Perhaps you could find a group that meets regularly like a fitness or sports group that has men.
That sounds like a great idea since everyone really has to interact with each other.
There are other groups out there as well i'm sure. Find one. Maybe even join one with your friend.
I suppose it's possible guys might think you are "out of their league". I have known girls who were very pretty who were single but they also didn't seem interested in anyone. I don't know how many times they were asked out.
maybe you so hot that there afraid of you or maybe there to may other hot girls. maybe there shy or have a girlfriend now.
Maybe my belief that we are in a matrix is indeed true, and you are an Easter egg..
You probably have a resting bitch face or just look naturally intimidating, my friend is going through this but she don't care
Why don't you approach guys?
My ex approached me and we were together for three years.
Many guys are intimidated by beauty. Never understood that though. If the lady was a beauty queen or a two bagger, If I wanted to talk to her I would. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
If you are beautiful then you don’t need to bother so much.
And if you want a guy then I would happily approach you message me privately
This is just pathetic, dude 😂
Good looking girls are intimidating. You've just been unlucky in having guys approach you. Eventually it'll happen.
Your beauty may intimadate guys and we are not good with rejection
But what if I'm friendly and sending off positive body language, would that help?
Yes, unless im really shy then again i would be intimadated and afraid of rejection, beautiful women get my attention not by looks but how comfortable they make me feel.
Do you have any tips? Especially like at the mall or at any type of casual events of how I can get a guy to approach me?
Well, when im out if i notice a woman that keeps looking at me and smiling, then i will tell walk up. and say hi , qnd it usually goes from there. its a very natural thing, but watch out for the wolves because they are plenty
True, thank you.
Your welcome and be patient you will have more boyfriends then you want
Not being to feminine I don't think that's it just not the right man yet
maybe you are very intimidating to guys so guys doesn't approach you
The people approaching you aren't men, I suppose. You have to look at yourself more closely. Find out what really makes you happy.