Crush saw me at my ugliest moment?

[Anonymous]

Hi yesterday I had a meeting n I had to run errands earlier. My hair were so so so messed up. I look slouchy cos I was extremely tired n I had tired eyes, even in photos taken by the company yesterday I look extremely bad with bad posture, wrong timing for the camera n looking weird.

So happens that my crush walks past the event that we had yesterday n saw me. He knew about that event because few days ago I told him I ll settle the stuff with him some other day because I won't be free yesterday. Why would he walk pass n see me at the event n not say hi. N he saw me at my ugliest moment. :( will that change anything? :(

[Anonnnnnnnnnn]

Oh girl... You're okay. People frequently see me with no make up in my yoga pants and greasy hair after work. Even people I like... I just don't care lol. I'm tired and yeah i just don't have time to get ready and all I want to do is sleep. I try and look presentable everyday if I have work or I'm hanging out with someone though and people know that about me so it's okay if they see me in my lazy clothes with tired eyes after work- I ain't trying to prove anything. :)

[Asker]

That's really good. :) yes u shouldn't have to impress people. If they truly care, they will be there for you regardless of your physical state, to me everyone looks beautiful. :) and that it was because I'm always looking professional n I I take my time to look professional to impress myself. I sometimes find myself insecure when I look like a zombie, haha especially in front of my crush. Thanks n I realise I shouldn't from now on! :)

[Anonymous]

Do u knoe if he likes y? If he does then he won't care how u look like he will think ur pretty regardless

[Asker]

Haha I'm not sure but I came to realise that even if he doesn't t, but still a nice person he wouldn't mind it if someone is ugly :p I don't think I care how a person looks regardless if I like the person (as in hv a crush on him) or not :p

[Anonymous]

I've seen my crush looking baaaaaad.
If he is a good guy and really liked you be won't care

[Asker]

Haha I've seen him looking bad too, but I still adore him! :) it's what makes him adorable! :p I saw food stuck on his teeth! How cute! :p

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I've seen him right after practice looking awful. And tripping on his own feet. If you like the person, its cute XD

[DodgersGM]

No, it really shouldn't.

When you like someone you realize that they're not perfect (whether it be their looks, their personality imperfections, etc.) and you don't discard them for those imperfections.

You're just a human that had a bad day. He'll get over it if he's an adult and truly likes you.

[ÉlanVital]

If he really likes you that shouldn't change his perception. I've seen my crushes in very bad shape but they still look cute to me.

[Asker]

Aw that girl must be lucky to hv a crush like you. I even wore the hat for that event n my hAir looks flattened lol! Looked like a guy. But thx. If he's worth it, he wouldn't mind. :D

[ÉlanVital]

Y lucky? And yea like u said. If he's worth it he will like you for who you are. Haha and what do you mean flattened lol

[Asker]

Hha! It's like when u put on a hat or a cap for sometime, ur hair goes bad. Like it doesn't look like how it is naturally! It takes the shape of the hat? Haha lucky cos ure such a Great person who accepts her at any point in time, n basically not a douche who just goes for the looks.

[ÉlanVital]

Yeah I try not to focus so much on appearance. There are far more important things to look for in a girl. I've seen some wonderful girls who have insecurities and have a beautiful personality, that's what I crave. Imperfections are what make a girl perfect.

[Asker]

Yes! Haha. Previously few years ago I had like certain preferences that Id like a guy to have. But then after some time I realise that u get a person with all the imperfections n u still fall in love with them, and that is real love! :) well obviously there are certain things that certain people wouldn't accept (some traits that are totally outrageous or mean or stuff), but other than that the smaller things that shouldn't matter, you let it slide. :)

[ÉlanVital]

Exactly couldn't agree more!

[soccerchick4eva]

That shouldn't change anything. He's only the perfect match for you if he accepts you for everything, especially for the ugliest moments :)

[HappyToBeAlive]

I still like my crush and I've seen her sad, sick, no make up, too much make up. Trust me, if he likes you, he wouldn't mind

[Anonymous]

Well you know what they say, if he's still paying attention to you at your worst...

[Anonymous]

If it does then he's an ass. Simples.

[Asker]

Thanks :) made me feel better :)