Why do girls lie and play games?

[geekyguy]

I am a nice good guy so I have been told, never have had a girlfriend, I believe I know why. Simply because girls lie, play games and jerk people around or because I haven't found a girl I wanted to be with or if I did she wasn't interested. I refuse to ask a girl out in real nor will I approach a girl have wasted my time in the past and yes I have been burned. So I am only forced to do the online thing. But here is my problem, why is it girls lie specifically they say the are interested and never hear back I have come to the realization that its normal or really screwed up to disappear after a few emails or a couple of ims.

I do realize everyone has flaws and all and I believe physical counts initially and attraction is nice and all but believe personality counts more and can make a girl more attractive but at this point looks like I am going to be alone and single for awhile have been so far. So I ask why is it girls say they don't like the lies and games but yet the do it and it seems to be what I get from almost every girl I talk to, why why why? You have no idea how frustrating. Any help much appreciated.

[OoooooGggggg]

First of all I'm sorry for w. E happened to you in da past. I myself "play around" with guys b4 and I've hurt many guys. And yes I was shallow. Shame on me huh?. And I regretted it. They were all nice and sweet. I guess I was young and just wanted to play around. Rite now I'm going thru hell with this guy that I like. I mean he's not good looking. He's always making fun of me. And yet I'm crazy bout him. And he's driving me nuts! I guess its karma. So all the girls that did you wrong they gonna get it back sooner or later. I believe that you will find that special someone. Or some girl will go crazy for you and you would get the chance to drive her crazy! Haha. And girls that lies and play games. Just let them go. Don't waste ur time getting mad or thinking about it.

[Miffy2020]

I know a few girls like this and eventually all the guys, whose emotions their messing around with, begin to figure out that those girls are not out for a relationship. Some girls just flirt for fun and it is wrong. So here's your mission - You're a good guy. find yourself a good girl. There's probably one right in front of your face. Most likely a friend or someone you're bound to meet soon. don't give up hope.

[geekyguy]

I wish there were but I don't have any girls as friends, who knows maybe better off by myself. Who knows maybe better off by myself, I don't like games and lies never have but yet someone told me a guy on here actually that all girls play games and just deal and accept it, well if that's the case looks like I am doomed, maybe I am better off to turn into an asshole seems that's what most girls want but don't know or think I could do that

[Miffy2020]

Don't give up just like that! Not all girls are like that. There are a lot of girls who play games and then there are a lot of girls who want a nice guy. Maybe you're not looking in the right age group. Usually as girls get older they lose the 'playing games' thing and realize that's not how they are suppose to find a guy. And don't turn into an asshole. Girls like assholes, but women like nice guys

[OliviaSkumps]

I think each girs should be proud of her hobby. For example, I play

[tex151]

Let me tell you alittle about women, they cannot be trusted, sure theyre beautiful creatures and they are fun to have sex with but, man don't trust them right off the the bat, like I tell my friends I would rather swim with a shark, mingle with a lion or a bear, and the reason is because most of the time I will see them coming and I will know what hit me when they attack, but with a woman oh hell no you never see them coming and if your not careful and put your emotions on the line oh man once they get through mind Fu**ing you, you never knew what hit you, your left in a daze wondering what the hell happend. For the record I have no hate towards women, I just don't trust them.

[Robertinho]

Wow man you could'nt of said it in a better way bro. After a couple of hurtful and crushing defeats............................i know exactly what you truly mean. I guess I needed to hear this but from someone else, someone like you, thanks man, take care.

[Anonymous]

Because girls want to play games, and get guys to like them .